I think I am ready for my first escort experience. I found a provider that seems great, she is beautiful and appears to have a great personality and attitude. She is local, (as opposed to "I'm in town for two days only")She has a great website and several outstanding reviews on TER. Incall was offered, but I prefer outcall, at least for the first time. I have a decent hotel room reserved, with an early check in requested (hopefully a 2 pm date)Being my first time, I did not have references, so she verified by calling me at my place of employment. I feel pretty good about everything, but am still a little paranoid. I have a lot to lose if it goes bad, as I know everyone else does. I am wondering if I have all my bases covered. Is the fact that she has a website, and reviews and that she verified good? I am assuming so, but is there anything that I haven't thought about? Are there things I can do to increase my safety, so to speak? Please excuse me if this is a stupid post, just never done this before.

Thanks for the help

Welcome aboard, and good luck.

More reviews would be better, obviously. More importantly, that her reviewers have a solid history as well. For a local gal, see who the local board posters are (you can see the top posters) and see if she has seen any of them.

I believe there is a gal here that could be LE posting to the local board with one review, and her reviewers history is kind of thin as well.

You're probably fine... just be sure not to discuss money and acts. Only ever ask if her rates on her site are current, and have the donation sitting out for her in a conspicuous location (bathroom is good) so it doesn't have to be mentioned AT ALL during her visit.

I went back to her reviews, I didn't see that there were two other pages, so she has 27 reviews going back to 2006. I am assuming that is good. I am also checking the reviewer histories, as you suggested. Many of them have numerous reviews posted, again I'm feeling pretty good about that as
well. I have not yet made the mistake of talking money or services with her, and will follow your advice on that as well. Anything else you can think of?

Have her call you for the room number after she has arrived so you know she is there and not late, then wait by the door so she barely has to knock. You do not want to have her standing around in the hall any longer then needed.

Sounds like you've done your homework. It's not a stupid post at all, I was very nervous my first time as well and still get nervous when meeting someone for the first time. Just the nature of the game. If she's a good provider she'll get you relaxed in not time and you'll have a wonderful time!

Good advise.
Have fun.
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Discretely place the donation in plain site.  Don't talk about it or mention it.  She will see it.

Then let her lead the way...

HAVE FUN!

good luck and let us now how it goes. I still get nervous even after a year now of doing this.

Thanks for all the great advice. It all happens this Friday, and I will report back