I have plans for my first overnight  with a Provider and would appreciate any advice in order to not do something stupid to screw it up.  The Provider and I have seen each other in the past and have had a very good time together so I thought the overnight to just extend that time.  I plan a dinner & show for the evening and then we will go to a nice hotel for the remainder of the time.  Duration of time together has been discussed.  In the morning, room service for breakfast or go out again?
How much actual sleep time to expect?

Don't expect too much sleep time.

I've been on 6 overnight appointments since becoming a provider. I never got more than 5 hours of sleep.

We were too busy "having fun".

1. Put the seat down
2. Relinquish all rights to the bathroom
3. Don't Snore

I find it varies from provider to provider, depending on your chemistry and common interests.  Typically there's playtime before sleep, and then playtime in the morning before you part company...but I like to make sure we both get enough sleep so morning time is as fun and exciting and we get to spend a good deal of time cuddling while sleeping.  In particular if you are talking about a 12 hour period, you have time for dinner (room service or otherwise), several hours of play, 6+ hours of sleep, another couple hours of play and a quick breakfast...

Only thing is, I find overnighters to get very addicting with the right lady...be forwarned

Overnighters are by far my favorite hobbying experience. I love the chance to really get to know the lady and vice versa.

You can probably count on 5-6 hours of sleep time. If you snore, take whatever precautions to minimize that- nasal spray, maybe even the nose strips after lights out.

Good luck!

"Don't expect too much sleep time."

Unless you and the provider are in agreement, then no, don't expect your normal share of sleep time.

Just because you schedule an overnight, it dont not open the gates to all night marathon sex..unless the provider want's it.  

It's a date, basically.  You meet, have bcd (if wanted) go to dinner, have some drinks, maybe catch a play/movie/live band, head back to the room, bcd, sleep, wake up, bcd, eat (or not), shower, dress....go home.  


Ive had overnights where we painted the town black.  Ive had overnights we never left the room.  Ive had overnights where we had dinner/drinks/bcd/sleep/bcd/go home.  

It all depends on you and the provider and what works for both of you.  

Never assume you will be "gettin in" all night long.

Ok maybe a new Kama Sutra book. Go prepare yourself like a you are going to run a marathon. Buy water, vitamins, and etc!

Ok kidding aside sounds like everyone else covered the other side of things.

One I think I don't recommend is you getting trash drunk, wouldn't it suck if you woke up and realized you wasted all your time with the provider snoring up a storm and scratching your butt while the provider uses some ear plugs and counts her donation.

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Sleep varies but on average I would expect your sleep time to be about 3 hours

I'd say that if you know each other and get along, you'll have a great time! Dinner and a show sound perfect, maybe some playtime in the room before dinner, out on the town, and then more playtime when you return. Sleep, then in the morning usually another round and perhaps room service or if the hotel offers a breakfast buffet, you could grab a bite to eat there.. It sounds like you've discussed the time frame and know the gal, so I'd expect things will go smoothly.

As for sleep.. everyone's different, but there are some basic guidelines. I personally don't function without a minimum amount of sleep..  while my schedule varies, I do have to get at least 8-10 hours in any 24 hour period to be at my best. My rates for overnights are calculated with this in mind.. I know that on a twelve hour date, I will not be getting my ten hours.. that is not a reasonable expectation for anyone. At the same time, I do expect to get a reasonable amount of sleep, usually six hours, then go home and catch up on the rest of it before starting my day. This is figured into my rates as well as specifically mentioned on the site.

I think most gals are up front about their expectations, and if not, you should feel free to discuss your own desires along with her needs, so you don't misunderstand anything with regard to how the time will be spent.. but from what I've seen, an average is about 6 hours of companionship and six hours of sleep- usually a 50-50 split or thereabouts. Some ladies may offer "marathon" overnighters or 12-hour daytime dates which are differently priced and structured than the standard overnight, but I'm guessing many of us cannot function like that- and the gals who do offer that likely take into account that they will be off work for the following day catching up on their rest, so they usually charge a premium. My dates are advertised as 12-14 hours, with 6-8 hours of sleep, so there is some variation, but I have no desire to stay up all night for a sex marathon.. gotta take care of myself, and I think most gals approach it the same way. For a 24 hour overnight date, I require minimum 8-9 hours of sleep, as I will have to function the next day and continue the date, rather than go home and finish sleeping. My 24h rates also reflect this. So basically what I'm trying to say, is that each provider has her own specific expectations, but the general theme seems to be 5-7 hours out of 12-14, or about half the time sleeping.

One other piece of advice I have would be to offer her a separate bed/room if you snore or are an extremely restless sleeper. Of course falling asleep next to each other is great, but if the gent (or the provider) has these issues, the best thing for everyone is to spend the time together right up until you are ready to fall asleep, and then retire to separate beds or rooms. Obviously this is not usually needed, but when it is, your consideration is much appreciated.

Enjoy and let us know how it goes!!~

XoXo
Marea