I understand the need for safety for providers.

Obviously they don't want scummy guys or cops hitting them up, so I undersatnd the need for verification of some sort.

I, on the other hand, have a desire for anonymity (even from verification services like P411/RS2K).

How can I maintain my anonymity / no connections to me yet still see providers?

1. get a burner with a fake name
2. fake email addresses / business cards
3. pay cash / use prepaid credit cards for everything

obviously, if i was willing to give up my personal info to just P411 or something I'd get further, but for someone who is paranoid about that, what are the options?

If you want total anonymity, would be to do a dinner date first, but even then the lady may not want to go any further with you.

YMMV with it, but outside of that you can just try until you get a hit.

with someone who has not been screened?

Dinner dates are part of the package that some ladies offer for verified clients.  They are not used as a screening events. That would be waste of time for both guys and gals.

Find providers dumb enough to see a total stranger not knowing who he is, or don't hobby. Sorry, but that's about it, unless you're willing to submit info to P411, and even then...many providers won't see you without refs.

Curly also nailed it with meeting for coffee or dinner...means not a thing if you're a cop. We are busted ON ARRIVAL, not later. The case may not make it to court, but who cares. We had to spend the night in jail!!!

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I have just seen some that use that as another form of verification, more of a meet and great, again though YMMV, but outside of giving out some personal info to someone (either the provider or another verification site) it's about the only option you really have, unless he just contacts enough ladies until he finds one that doesn't screen.

Also may depend on the location as well.

Majority of the girls I have seen will only go to dinner with someone who has been screened before...

Perhaps you might want to get more experience hobbying...

It has been asked many times.  Understand that it is MORE COSTLY for a gal to dinner date you.  First off she has to dress for public, hair & makeup, travel time & expenses, meal time (wait for meal), and return to her location.  You'd be lucky to get that accommplished in 2-3 hours...  and you haven't even gotten upstairs yet.  So another hour of play time.  
There are those who offer those services but expect to pay for all that time.  

There are a variety of newbie friendly low key screening that providers use.  I think you'll have to give up something to break in.  I was fortunate to do so.

Or realize that you won't see certain providers.

You can do all of the above, but if the provider won't take you as a client, then you are fucked.

none of them appear to solve your desire for total anonymity, and you aren't likely to get any that will.  I understand the need for security for clients who are in high profile jobs with a lot to lose if busted, but we all face that possibility if we partake in the hobby.  It's part of the game.

Your points:
1. assume you mean a burner phone, if you have to hide from someone, then it's a must.
2. an anonymous email is always a good idea, but fake business cards, not so good.  Many providers use employment of clients as part of their screening, and a fake job is of no help.
3. the vast majority of providers only accept cash, and the number that take CC's is fairly small, I would guess.

Giving up your personal to a verification site as opposed to several providers is obviously a better choice, but, as has been pointed out above, many providers still want references in addition to that.

To remain totally anonymous, you would have to see providers that do little or no screening....would you really feel safe doing that?  The only other option is to just date civvies and hope you get lucky.

Swim

you could try a MP which offers added services.  They generally don't ask for referances though services may vary widely.  Then there's the risk, that you might be sen coming, going, car parked near such a location...  as they are not as discreet as a provider.