i just started this whole escort thing, less than a month ago. in fact, my first client is the one who referred me here, he said that you girls could help me.
i have no idea how to get started, where to advertise, how to effectively advertise, or anything like that. i've been posting on craigslist but not only do high-class men avoid CL for the most part, i am TERRIFIED of getting in trouble or being snared by an undercover. i am a single mom to a 19-month-old boy who is absolutely the light of my life, and if we lost each other it would be disastrous for both of us... but this is the only way i can make good money and still spend most of my time with him. i don't know how to get reviews.. i don't know any of that stuff.
could someone please help me? i hate to sound so desperate.. but i could really use a mentor. if you have AIM, my screenname is ktbutterflydust.
thanks in advance for any assistance you can provide.
Invest the $20 to get VIP status until you start getting reviews. You can then use the PM mail system in TER and talk to ladies and gents personally. You can also take a look at all the juicy details of other providers reviews and get an idea of how you want to run your business.
Good luck to you, have fun and play safe. Screen intently. Don't just let any guy who calls you up for a date show up without finding out who he is and that he isn't LE. Be sure to check the national DNS lists or black lists. The other girls can help you find those as I don't bother to look for them.
Eros is a pay ad site, at the top of home page click on info/help and at the top of that page click on New Advertizer Contact Form. Either fill that out or a shortcut would be just to call the 800 number. You will be on hold for a few minutes but they will be very helpful in getting you started. Hope that helps.
usually post for ladies such as yourself. I've checked back a couple of times and he hasn't posted it yet so I will steal it. I turned a lady who was going indy from an agency on to the site at the end of a session not too long ago, and she has since told me that it was invaluable to her.
The lady who runs the site will help you as well (I don't know who it is, but my provider friend says she's great), but at least look through the site if you choose not to contact her.
Pay particular attention to the blog - it has great advice.
Also, my advice in addition to terrev's link is to find your regional board and watch it for a while (or browse back if you are impatient) to see who the players are. You will quickly identify other veteran providers who you should approach for help. Buy a VIP membership so that you can read the local reviews, particularly of the providers you have identified for possible help, and then PM an introduction. Depending on your area, you probably won't be seen as competition, and you should know that a vast majority of these ladies will be happy to help you as long as you don't abuse it.
Good luck and whatever you do, put safety first.
(Link modified by moderator, to help everyone find the most useful information. The entry on "Provider Screening will give newbie gals lot of useful info, and will explain a lot to newbie clients!!!)
need to make contact with several ladies in your area who can teach you the biz; not the sex part but the business part. You need to screen your clients so you don't run into a wierdo or LE. Ladies can give the how & why better than we guys.
Good luck and hobby safe. I for one admire your courage to seek a better life style.
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