Just curious, I am new to the hobby since losing my spouse (and my interest in talking to dumb women in bars at this point in life and I am still learning the slang.

Was wondering about this one:

Does "likes to party" or "party girl" or "party friendly" and variations mean what I think it does -- as in expensive little bags of white powder?

I know "party favors" was a pretty common way to bring that up delicately back in the day... is that what it means in an ad today?

One of my reviewers wrote that about me in one of my reviews and our appointment had nothing to do with that or "partying" with any "party favors".  In fact he had even offered me alcohol, but I had turned that down because I don't even drink!  I think he was referring to the fact that I " had really got into our appointment and offered many services".  So I think "Party Girl" can have many meanings, so don't assume the wrong meaning when you read that in an ad!

DreamyKisses

100% of the time, when a gentlemen asks me this, he is referring to what you think. Some ladies might use it for the same reason in their ads, although that sounds pretty stupid if you ask me... but it might also refer to what the above poster said, where she was just really fun & likes to have a blast. Maybe the younger ones don't know where the terminology originally came from & are using it unintentionally... hopefully.

Well despite my uncanny ability to type words and phrase into a search box somehow I managed to miss the massive amounts of detail findable on google for this topic.

Indeed my memory was correct and this is apparently a huge situation for the ladies out there. The ones that don't tend to seek it are often just surrounded by it found it awful tedious.  None of this is surprising really, certainly anyone who knows strippers in any capacity has at least some idea there's been a 99% movement in that field for years. "Occupy Nostrils" I think it's called.

In any event when some slightly trashy chick (non-pro) was called a "party girl" it didn't mean that she put out. That she would fuck you was a given after looking her up and down for about 11 seconds. "Party girl" was slang for an often predatory technique. One effective at getting guys to chip in lots of cash. Like a typical day at the brothel except the woman gets blown. Out of her skull.

[|> TL;DR - "Party Girl" in my day meant "Coke Whore."  However -- that's a phrase that wasn't always a bad thing mind you. There's really no better way to get "forgot it was a service" levels of quality than not having it be a service at all.

There is also a nasty dark side to this involving providers on an endless cycle of being high all the time and falling into deep deep hole while the agencies push them to move product. Seems to me that is a coke dealing problem infesting the sex trade not the other way around.

** Take Goldman Sachs and add lots of cocaine do you get a huge onslaught of paid sex providers?  Don't see it, the B&T crowd will get it just the same too.
** Take providers and add blow what happiness? Well coke and coke dealing problem and messed up providers.
** See you can take anything and add coke and it gets way more tedious and manic and likely to burn all the money. I mean look at Fleetwood Mac.

And I wanted to take  break here. I am trying to pretending that my original question didn't have an obvious answer.  .

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The consensus answer seems to be that yeah those words translate anywhere from "will do a bump with you out of courtesy" to "I will follow you home and plow through whatever you have likely inviting my girlfriends and you'll feel like you got it 'free' when in fact it was 5x more money and somehow you paid more and got less girl mouth-on-Johnson time and more mouth-on-blow running a mile of inanity a minute. Whoops.

And then the top level of all there are the ones who supposedly get it for the John. In fact many news stories about college kids ordering escorts just to turn around asking for 8-balls and ignoring the full access titties they had procured in their faces. There is much more out there.

I am certainly not in the market. Damm i wouldn't even know what I would do if two tall blonde FS+ hotties were in my room with a gram and a two hour pre-paid appointment, it's been so long even since taking a bump for courtesy I would probably not even know what the hell to do with such a gift.

I don't care what city stories are from. I don't want ratings or tips. I don't trust the local news even slightly Just curious what it's like out there. Is this common? Highly common and the reviewrs here all use secret slang I've always missed?

What I am really curious though is what the ladies and fellow reviewers have seen. .

Especially want to know how the ladies deal with the general bad scene that usually grows up around certain drugs, that one specifically. I know it's a tough job and grueling at times, even if maybe some parts aren't horrible as the media portrays.

But with a constant backdrop of cocaine aggressiveness it would be awful rough. How's it work out there?

I've been a monger for awhile, I have never run into a "party girl" however, I do not seek them out eirther. Top courtesans are usually, but not always drug free and many limit their drinking as well on a first date. I've been known to bring a bottle of wine, selected from a ladies "gift page" on her web site, but that's about it.

.... it means drugs but if they are specific about the drug you see 420 or "ski" friendly. Like 8 times out of 10 likes to party or party friendly or party favors means she doesn't mind if you bring drugs for her or if you'll do them with her.

...so it really hasn't been an issue for me.  

There was one client once who was CLEARLY hopped up when he arrived, and I kicked him out.  I'm very lucky he didn't cause a problem on the way out, or after he left.  But that was when I was very new and wasn't screening very well.

Although there is no firm consensus, I think "party" GENERALLY refers to coke or other HARD drugs - 420 is different, and is much more socially acceptable in the hobby. (I am 420 friendly but I do not and would not advertise it in my ads or on my website, nor will I discuss it ahead of time, so you pretty much have to be an established client before you'll find out.)

I do hear stories of local girls whose reputation would indicate that perhaps they "party" a little to much, but those are not generally the girls who I would consider 'professional' and they are not generally well-reviewed (they may SAY they are, but that's another story all together).

I always thought it meant a girl or lady who likes to wear pointy, conical shaped hats with little elastic chin straps while blowing on funny-shaped noise makers.  Also, there is lots of cake, ice cream, and soda.

I receive is if I am 420 friendly.Even this request is not frequent. I don't post any information such as that on my website. I have not been asked about "party favors" and it could just possibly be a change in the times or in the clientle that i tend to see.  95% of the time I do drink with my clients though not to an excess.

I posted after idly noticing it in a single ad - didn't think to try this:

http://manhattan.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/?keyword=Party%20friendly

That's a lot. Half a dozen or more daily. Granted NYC is gigantic and that's a few ads but they do sen to be trying to convey a message that means something. I am not trolling for it, more kinda shocked at how flagrant it is unless I am reading the wrong meaning into it.