Plenty of providers offer what they call a public screening option. Maybe it's not popular with the providers and punters here on TER but it's definitely an option for plenty.
When deciding whether to see a provider for the first time, I frequently say to myself that it'd be great to meet her in a public setting for 5-10 minutes to judge whether I want to see her. And I'm not just talking about physical attraction, but the way she handles herself, whether she smokes, etc. What about asking her if we could meet somewhere for coffee? Under what circumstances (if any) would this be appropriate? Obviously, I'd pay for her time.
to go out in public requires fully dressing, maybe makeup & clothes. An hour of prep, travel time, chat time... so it costs her an hour or 2 with no guarantee of a date.
If you see well reviewed ladies, as is recommended for newbies, and GET VIP & read the full profile. Are the pictures recent & real, services provided. If you want to hedge your bet try just a half hour though it can cost near as much as a full hour. The whole point of TER is to provide information before you go to her. A months VIP is cheaper than a spoiled date. We've all been there which is how we know.
If you get a chance to attend one, please do. Just make sure the people who are hosting it are decent and can be trusted.
I have done this a few times. If there is a bar or restaurant near her incall (or your place), should be no problem. If you are paying for the time, and it's not inconvenient, I don't see why she wouldn't, unless she's afraid you might bail out.
If you decide not to see her, how much do you pay? If you are willing to pay for the full time booked, should be no risk to the provider. Might even be fun!
And also, I would say most of us are very open to additional questions before meeting, to include a phone conversation, some gentlemen may even email other reviewers to clarify certain doubts. I have met new friends at public settings beforehand for drinks/chat/get acquainted but please be considerate with our time specially, if we are low volume, if the lady has dependents or other obligations in her private life. I find that attraction is quite hard to judge within 5-10 minutes so it is best to book 90 minutes so the time can be spread according to what your would prefer (drinks 30 minutes, private time one hour for example).
you're still going to pay the FULL fee regardless of what happens after. I doubt anyone is going to take 2 or 3 hours to get ready for you, and be out both time and money. I offer a meet and greet type thing, but it's only for couples. I've tried the one on one meet and greets and they rarely turn into anything that's worth doing. Just be sure you understand that "showing up" still equals intent, meaning if you or she is a cop, an arrest can take place.
Plenty of providers offer what they call a public screening option. Maybe it's not popular with the providers and punters here on TER but it's definitely an option for plenty.
That is about the most dangerous advice ever given. Seriously! You can be arrested JUST FOR SHOWING UP TO A MEETING! You don't have to exchange money, don't have to take off any clothes or discuss anything sexual. Your ad, him showing up, equal INTENT. Please get versed in the laws and what cops are allowed to do. We already have an idiot on the GD trying to pass off this same bs, and it is utterly naive and downright inaccurate!
If you don't know BEFORE showing up that a guy/girl is already legit, you're an idiot to meet them in public to find that out.
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That kind of public screening is bad. But I think what she was referring to is that some girls (generally very high end ones) offer totally public dates (that they refer to as "public screening", only available after traditional screening) in say a cafe for 30 minutes (still cost 100-400) so that the guy can be convinced before he books a "private" date. Anais Yeung and Avery Moore are two examples of ladies who offer this, I believe.
If you don't know BEFORE showing up that a guy/girl is already legit, you're an idiot to meet them in public to find that out.
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I'm not telling anyone else what to do with their life, but saying that is smart is absurd. The laws or lack thereof concerning what cops are allowed to do, is pretty much universal...they can do what they want, and you can fight about your rights AFTER you are arrested, and have a public mug shot lol.
I do meet and greets as well, but I know who the hell is showing up. I do NOT just blindly have some guy who gave me zero information meet me anywhere.
I tend to agree with the view that it is unlikely a provider will do what you suggest w/o you paying her requested fee for her time. Prep and travel still affect the meeting with no guarantee of a play date to follow. What you want may be good for you but as much work for her as an actual play date.
Get VIP, read reviews, look at pics, and any other research on your desired provider rather than spending date money to just sit and have a drink or two. In my book, that is a much preferred method of deciding if you want to see someone. As was pointed out, if it doesn't work out when you see her, you can always leave.
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I'll do it. If its only 15-20 I wouldn't charge my full rate though. ID accept half, now if you want to go out for a meal before our date, Id expect my full rate.
Just my .02