What are your views on a guy wearing plain old Levis to a meeting at an upscale hotel on a Sunday morning?  (Til now I've worn business casual among other reasons to show respect to the person I was meeting.)

There's no formal dress code for upscale hotels. Dressing casually won't draw attention to you, but weird/nervous/confused behavior will. It helps to ask her for the elevator location before you enter the building so you can act confident in where you're heading.

I guess we're operating with different clientele, lol.   I recently took my college SB to the mall & dropped $150 for her favorite jeans.  It's ridiculous, but that's the world I'm living in now.  But let me ask you: if your client wore jeans with a Perry Ellis v-neck & a Claiborne blazer, how would that be?  That's pretty much my standard look now.  I guess it all depends on what game you're playing & who you're playing with.  --z

....so that neither of us draws attention.  

And nice backhanded slap at the OP as if his money isn't as green as yours.

I stopped wearing suits, sport coats and the like many years ago.  

So...answer the question.

Not to mention you've just slandered an entire group that has active involvement on another board here.

Upscale for incalls are normally jeans, nice shirt and dress shoes.  Sometimes tennis shoes, but rare.

it comes off minutes later anyway.

...if I was staying there.

I always wear Dockers and a Polo shirt.

The name "dani" sounds like a girl, but the text of the post sure sounds like it's coming from a client perspective.

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1. Wear what makes you look and feel good.  
2. If there's a dress code, ie; formal event, restaurant requiring jacket, certain attire, blah, blah, blah... If it's too much to adhere to the requested attire, stay home, put your tootsies up, recline on your Barc-a-lounger(sp?)  and open a frosty, cold, bottle of white-label Chimay or two or twenty. Damn.....Don't forget to invite me!  

But I've seen Levis on Easter Sunday brunch guests at the Four Seasons in LA/Beverly Hills. As long as they're clean no one raises an eyebrow.

Even a fucking T-shirt costs twice that much there.

I guess he better rethink what is worth bragging about. Even a "ghetto girl" like you knows he's bush league. lol

Unless your overall appearance leaves something to be desired. For instance you look like you just got off work as a sanitation worker. Or you've been landscaping all day long.