All of my experience thus far has been away from home traveling. I really want to find a local provider. Problem is getting away can be really difficult. Needless to say my SO watches me like a hawlk.  One slip up and she has me over a barell with $ and parental rights.  

Any really good ideas? I think my biggest problem is the ad-hoc nature of me being able to get away might only leave hours for setting up a meetup.

For the ladies if I guy said He had  a really difficult time getting away... would you be willing to see someone new on short notice if they provided screening info in advance ?

I'm sorry you have to deal with a less than desirable home life.  

You don't have any hobbies (other than this)? A night out with the guys, cigar lounges, casino, playing golf, boating with your friends. Do you have a lunch break at work? can you play right before or after work?

But yes I would see a guy with limited availability if he pre-screened and I was available that day last minute. I do it for a few guys in Chicago. Just depends on the lady you're looking to see.

non-hobby hobbies such as golf (good for at least 5 hours), visiting a casino, (money "lost" helps cover money used for providers), going to the gym to work out (accounts for your freshly showered look when you get home), poker night with the guys (again, covers the money used), etc.  

That's when the SO drives by your work several times a week and comments about where you park when you get home... it's when a few hrs away results in interrogations...  
Yep it sucks but I will be free someday .. until then I need some stealth skills from the community...

when you say she's a hawk. Sounds like you may need to hire a divorce attorney attorney or seriously work on your marriage. But in the meantime, I would take on a real hobby like drinking. Work in some bad behavior into your routine and come home late shit faced every once in a while to piss her off. Consider getting into riding motorcycles. It's great excuse to get away and it's fun.