I am wanting to become a provider and not sure how to go about it.  prob the biggest challenge is Im a guy and all the sites i have found have been for women providers.
2nd is I dont live in a major metro which has a couple challenges.  1. as a professional it would be hugly destructive to me professionally and 2. it is harder to find a base with less population.  although we have colleges and universities.

welcome any comments/suggestions you all might have.  thanks

Like any lady starting out, it is important to do a lot of research before diving in -- posting here is a great start.

You may also want to check out the Concierge du Monde Forum (focusing on straight male companionship for women, though if your interest lies elsewhere, it may still be helpful):
http://conciergedumonde.com/forum

I'm not entirely sure what the TER policy is on linking to similar sites that aren't EXACTLY competitive, so Little Phil, you may swat my hand or other area of anatomy if linking to the forum isn't allowed.

Additionally, you can also get some insight into getting started here:
http://sw5.info/straightmen.htm
(Again, hetero-centric, but worth reading nonetheless.)

Best of luck in your new adventure!