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JustAsking1 9947 reads
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I was out of town and set up an hour date with a well-reviewed provider. She arrived a little early to my hotel.  We each had a glass of wine that I had brought.  After the usual chit-chat time (maybe a little longer than usual, because of the wine), we started to get naked.  I spent a few minutes on kissing and licking down her body, and began DATY.  She loved it...and loved it and loved it.  It was the longest DATY I've ever done; probably 25 minutes. I didn't want to stop before she came, and I didn't, but she took a long time.  In the end, I was not rewarded for giving this attention.  Instead, it just meant that we ran out of time.  So much for the nonrushed session I had expected from the reviews.  

To make matters worse, she got four phone calls during the hour, three (one from her security check-in girlfriend, two from her driver) which she answered and one (from her mother) which she didn't.  Unfortunately, Mom left a message, which made her phone beep every few minutes.  I twice asked her to turn off her phone, but she wouldn't.

So -- two questions.  What should I have done about the DATY session that wouldn't end, without ruining the mood? And what about the phone?

BigPoppaPumplv9106 reads

Write a review and let others know about what happend.  The phone thing is in my mind unexcusable.   As far as the DATY don't know what to tell you.  I would as well suggest not to see her again.

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spinner3910135 reads

THe DATY can be a problem should have gone for 69 ... as for the phone I agree with Poppa ... post a review ...... it's like one of my favorite movies Red October "one ping one ping only"  in your case the phone call should have been "one call one call only" and only at the beginning of your session.  Maybe you should've added time on for each additional call.... (now there's a thought)

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m2please12286 reads

who was the provider? is it Tatiana in Dallas?

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JustAsking19874 reads

No, it was in Salt Lake City. PM me if you really want her name.

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netmichelle11087 reads

1) I take responsibility for my orgasms. It is hard for me to come with DATY alone. If there is a time restriction, I may take the matter into my hands, or direct the flow of traffic. ;)

2) Was she inebriated? What kind of wine BTW?

3) Phone. Yours must be off, as mine. I can understand why she would want it to be on for security, but I am my own ninja.

4) Long winded DATY? Why didn't you take the plunge? Where was your condom?

5) Providers change, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. Document in a review. Move on. Lotsa flavors at the candy store.

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JustAsking111938 reads

1.  Good point about directing the traffic flow. Neither of us did.  I should have, but failing that, she (who is 100 times more experienced than I am) should have.

2.  No, not at all. She drank about 4 ounces, and had no liquor smell on her breath. It was Fetzer Gewuertztraminer.

4.  I was trying to create the GFE illusion in my hotel room--hence the wine and the DATY before FS.  I could at any time have stopped and said "My turn now" or "Let's f$$k".  But I wanted her to cum first.  I'm rethinking why I thought that was so important.

5.  I will.  Not many well-reviewed providers in SLC, but then I don't live there and won't choose the same one if I go back.

Thanks for the comments.

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blakkromeo2k8289 reads

She's the provider, not you. Your ego kept you down there when you should've been letting her do the work. That's like a girl paying you to give you head---only a sucker. Chalk it up to experience and always go for yours first from now on.

As for the phone, you asked her to turn it off, she didn't--nothing you can do except pop one, kick her out, and don't call her again.

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JustAsking18840 reads

Your second sentence is right on.  Thanks.

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