Newbie - FAQ

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TheDM 11987 reads
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Wow, what can I say but thank you to TER for having this site!

I am a 32 year old who is V E R Y new to this and I am venturing into it with one toe on the beach an one in the water. The posts I have read so far are wonderful and I really appreciate everyone giving their input. It has truly made me feel at ease. I am still a nervous wreck because I am trying to contact a specific young lady for a date. That is where I need everyone's help. I have called this young lady who caught my eye but her voice mail is filled up. I can't leave a message and I have sent her a couple of emails. Is it wise to continue on this path or should I simply give up? I found her very attractive, her reviews were great and I love her voice mail. What does everyone think? I don't want to make her uncomfortable and I feel strange because I am new to this. What is the "policy" for trying to meet someone? I am just nervous and I need some help. I want to have a nice experience so any advice you can give would be great. Thank you in advance!

-DM

IF her voice mail is full and you haven't received a reply to email, most likely she is very busy and not ignoring you specifically. You are probably in a long list of guys she just doesn't have time to contact.

With ladies that are very busy it is good to be persistent but not overzealous. Keeping trying email, make sure that you introduce yourself, give a time you would like to get together, length of session and where you would like the session to be. Include any confirmation information she may have requested and make sure you leave a way of contacting you  or more than one way if possible. Send the email every couple of days at the most. You do not want to weird her out.

Be patient. See other ladies and do not get obsessed. Hell, one of the other ladies you see may be a friend of hers and can hook you up. Referrals are great for that kind of thing.

Sometimes its really difficult to hook up with one of the busier ladys here. Just keep looking. Dont get strung out on trying for just one lady.

Good luck and hobby well. Most of all have fun!

Scot.

TheDM10395 reads

Thanks guys very much. I really do appreciate your advice and I will keep trying. Thanks again!

DM

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