Are we unanimous in observation of false providers photo and age being par for the course?  Have hobbyists just accepted this, and when they see a girl with stated age 21-25 who looks like she's 40, just not saying anything?  Can more be done from our end?

Some reviewers do point this out, so reading the reviews can certainly help on that score.

most providers do understate their age. The reviews do help sometimes but not always. My question is if using P411, does that site update the providers age automatically? I know they asked us originally what our birthyear was when applying so I assume that our age gets updated.

that the photos and age of a provider are not accurate. Honestly, it really doesn't bother me because it's expected. I've had incredible times with providers who faked there age and altered or used old photos.  

It's futile to demand that reviewers be honest as way too high a percentage of reviewers have had their ball sacks removed and are more interested in currying favor with the OTHFB's that they frequent over relaying any honest feedback about their actual experience.

...I know that's not a surprise to most of you, but I'm curious why you're questioning this. It seems you have not been disappointed in the past since you've given out five 10's for appearance out of your seven reviews.

I've been hobbyist for years, but only VIP here on again/off again for a year.  Just speaking generally, the 7 gals with TER profiles I've met and reviewed are outstanding

On the matter of an age that is claimed, I don't care what she says or thinks or imagines herself to be. I care that she appear to ME to be what she claims to be. I know of a couple of cases in NYC where I thought I was meeting a 26-30 and a 31-35 but later found out that both were 50+ !!! Both were Asian ... and beautiful and hot ... and when they said "30" they really did look 30 to me.  
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Pictures are often p-shopped but I expect the person I meet to be pretty darn close to what's in the pics. Blurred faces are almost always YMMV and you can't claim B&S or deception if that fantastic body is topped by something you were not expecting and do not like.  I've been pretty lucky with very few severe disappointments but my biggest peeve is the shaved waists.  
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I like thin (sorry, it's now slender). When the pictures are p-shopped to show ) ( and I meet up with | | or (   or, heaven forbid, (       BCD, I am not happy.  I don't recall anything that made me turn away and leave claiming B&S.
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Ads, bookers, phone girls: PLEASE tell me something that I will be able to believe.

where YOU can see the ladies in person, talk to the ladies and judge for yourself if you want to spend time with them. Easy measy.

A good friend of mine and fellow hobbyist had this discussion about age a long time ago.  He was right on the money when he said add 5 years or so to whatever is in the person's profile.  For me, that is not really a big deal. I have talked with several ladies during a date and they have confessed to me that they were older than their profile stated (40 but she was 46 and looked amazing!!!!). I did not ask what their age was, they volunteered it while chatting.  A gentleman doesn't ask.

This is the best solution to the problem, as you can see exactly how she looks, how she presents herself, how she talks, etc. I've confirmed some of my best choices this way by attending local Meet & Greet events, or by arranging a one-0n-0ne M&G with a potential provider (of course, I pay for her time, usually a 1/2 hour).

the time from her first review to the present, if you really want to be conservative about it.

I'm sure they're everywhere, but in MN there's a handful of gals grasping at that younger age they want everyone to believe they are. As if you hobbyists are all stupid.  (W.C...update your age, be honest. You could make 50 the new 30! L'Chaim!) It's laughable, but guys don't seem to mind being duped.

One of the highest rated Asian women in Dallas (well over a 9 average in appearance over multiple reviews) who is listed as 31-35 in age, I know for a fact is over 55. When she first went indie her booker told me her real age, so this is not guess work on my part. BUT no one seems to care and she continues to get high marks, so high I am actually tempted to book with this "old broad" just to see for myself, but with so much young talent around I haven't been able to convince myself to see someone only a couple of years younger than myself.

We all age. I am Asian and I certainly age.

I've embraced my age and I'm quite comfortable in my own skin.  

It's that most of them seem to skip "middle age" and go directly from young to old, but it does take most of them a VERY long time to get to old.

I went through a phase where I only dated Asian women, and I agree with your observation. When I was 32, I dated an attractive Asian woman who looked my age but was actually 42. And yeah, when their looks go, it's rapid.

Yep. Something like this:

You have a better chance of guessing an Asian lady's age using her hair length than by looking at just her face.

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