Well, my first appointment was amazing. Now I'm wondering if I'll ever be able to match it. The wealth of data on TER makes it possible to get pretty particular, too. Not sure what my point is here; anyone else felt like "it can only go downhill from here"?

They will be ups and downs of course, that is true for any endeavor.

Luck is the intersection of preparation and opportunity.

Stay prepared.

Happens to many newbs. Relax, take a deep breath.  Continue to do good research and you'll be rewarded again. And as mrf suggested you can improve on this first experience with another escort  

...the kid in a candy store analogy a previous poster mentioned is right on. You'll likely not match that first time feeling. The first time for most things you desire is hard to match but there are many firsts still to be had in this so do your research, don't get careless and enjoy.

that enabled you to find this wonderful provider.  Don't get complacent with doing your due diligence.  

Now it is time to write that first review.

Not sure if you're a golfer, but a classic golf scenario may serve as a good analogy for you.

I was playing golf last week, we came to a par 3 all over water and a guy in our group said "I'm going to use a water ball" (a junk ball that he doesn't mind losing if he hits it in the water). So I said to him "so, you're going to hit your ball in the water"?

An analogy that you may want to consider. If you go into a session thinking you're going to be disappointed, you probably will. Surely you understand that every woman is different, so you should expect it to be different, but I don't think it'll necessarily go downhill. Do your homework in here, DON'T see a BP girl unless she's well reviewed in here (too many B&S and upsellers), and I think you'll be just fine

I just started this activity about 10 months ago.. and did go through the candy store phase and then had to slow way down forfinacial reasons..  
I have had some wonderful experiences with wonderful women.. have made some new great friends (and I consider them true friends).. but have had to force myself to back off a bit (which is killing me)..  
Enjoy and do your research and I agree with Mr. Fisher.. it will get better.. I also have come to the conclusion that at the end of our life.. all we have are memories and I am thrilled that I have added some new and wonderful memories and look forward to more..

I am in my 40th year doing this, and sometimes after seeing a dozen different women over a long weekend, it occurs to me that maybe I am still in that phase myself. lol

My first experience was with two girls at a $1000/hr each Nevada brothel. I was high for days. I thought it couldn't get any better.

I came back home, and months later booked with an agency girl here in the deep south. She was much better looking than the NV gals, and with a much better figure. I think I had the "golf ball" syndrome that RussBJ speaks of, as I just didn't feel the same.

My third time out I hit a home run. I scored her 10/10, and I will stand by that. I tried a few other providers, but they didn't rise to her level.

There's another provider I'm going to see very soon. Her reviews and photos would indicate she's great.  As good as she may be, though, I wouldn't be the least surprised to find myself going back to the "home run" girl.

You won't know until you try others whether your first provider is all you think she is now. The wealth of data you speak of doesn't cover person-to-person chemistry because it can't.

st of us didn't have "amazing" experiences the first time. There are too many other mitigating factors (most of them nerves) to really completely relax and enjoy the entire session. So congrats to you on a positive first appointment.

However, as long as you stay in the hobby, you'll feel like you are on a roller coaster. Some of your sessions will continue to be amazing. You'll click were the ladies personality, the conversation will flow effortlessly, the sex will be awesome, and you'll walk out the door already planning to re-book an appointment.  

Conversely, some of your sessions will be average to poor. No matter how much research you do, and how confident you are in the lady, things will just not always work out. She could be having a bad day and seem distracted or disinterested. You could be having a bad day (not feeling great/personal issues, etc.) and just not into it. Services you thought were going to provided aren't offered to you. She doesn't quite look like her photos and you're disappointed. There are a myriad of reasons why sessions do not meet and or exceed your expectations. So don't get discouraged when you have your first bad session (and you will). Move on to the next lady.  

So understand, you'll have many ups and downs in this hobby. That's okay. The ladies whose company you enjoyed are the one's whom you repeat with. In life you do not connect with everyone on every level. Hobbying is no different.

Thanks for all the great responses.

Written and waiting for it to be posted... kind of wish I could get feedback on it

I'm still new as well, but the first woman I saw was only because I stumbled upon her info.  I really wasn't looking for P4P when I found her, but once I did I knew I had to try it out.  I was very satisfied.

I've now seen a handful of others (many of whom were amazing in their own right), but the first woman is still my ATF.  I try to see her whenever we can get it to work, which isn't that often for good reasons, but it is nice when it happens.  Part of why I started seeing others was to keep from developing inappropriate feelings, but I've gotten (mostly) past that now.

This is no doubt somewhat reflective of good luck, but with rare exception the women I've met doing this have been people I would like to be friends with in my normal life.  I have been really surprised by how much I enjoy the non-physical part of the experience.

So definitely explore ladies and possibilities (ever wanted a girl who's really tall or really short?  three way?  greek?), but also let yourself enjoy the connections you develop or already have.  Anyway, that's my opinion as someone who's a few months in.