I am fairly new to this new hobby/addiction, but am tired of paying 400 to 500 just to get a girl who doesn't look anythinglike the picture, or who hussles for tips or just won't do anything sexual!  I have had one good experience out of 14, still seeking the perfect GFE!  Help!

Your post makes me think that you do not have TER VIP membership. If not, you need to upgrade.  Look at it as an investment.  VIP will allow you to see details of providers in your area and allow you to avoid upsell and bait and switch.  Looks are certainly important, but they are not the whole story.  You need to read the VIP reviews and focus on ladies who have solid reputations, and still have the physical features that you desire.  Not sure what market you are in, but I can tell you 100% that if you follow this process you will find the satisfaction you seek.  I have not yet been disappointed, have not seen the problems you describe and have not paid those rates per hour for any of the sessions I have enjoyed. And I have only been in this game since Jan.

I expect you are going to see similar advice from others. Don't give up, just step back and re-evaluate your strategy

Do your homework here on the board.  Pay for VIP and see the ladies that are well reviewed with 8 and higher ratings.  Worked for me the first year in this Hobby.

away on B&S/Scam girls, you could have had more than 2 decades of TER VIP membership, and still gotten laid by some hotties.

Cowboy and Aries have given good advice.  If, however this doesn't change your "percentages", you might want to give up the hobby.  I mean, 1 for 14 is telling.  And as cold as this sounds, this hobby isn't for everyone.

Even without VIP, you can still do homework and drastically increase the odds.  A lady with consistently great scores isn't going to hustle and upsell.  IMHO, the VIP is worth the money, but it sounds like your little head is doing all of the research, and even VIP doesn't help that.

I agree, the hobby is not for everyone.  Frankly, the idea that you paid $400 to $500 14 times boggles my mind.  But, I know many do it and spend a whole lot more.

Even the laws of chance seem to be against you!!!

As others have said, become a TER VIP, and READ the reviews, don't just look at the numbers.  No, it does not guarantee success, but it does vastly improve the chances.