Your post makes me think that you do not have TER VIP membership. If not, you need to upgrade.  Look at it as an investment.  VIP will allow you to see details of providers in your area and allow you to avoid upsell and bait and switch.  Looks are certainly important, but they are not the whole story.  You need to read the VIP reviews and focus on ladies who have solid reputations, and still have the physical features that you desire.  Not sure what market you are in, but I can tell you 100% that if you follow this process you will find the satisfaction you seek.  I have not yet been disappointed, have not seen the problems you describe and have not paid those rates per hour for any of the sessions I have enjoyed. And I have only been in this game since Jan.

I expect you are going to see similar advice from others. Don't give up, just step back and re-evaluate your strategy

Do your homework here on the board.  Pay for VIP and see the ladies that are well reviewed with 8 and higher ratings.  Worked for me the first year in this Hobby.

Even the laws of chance seem to be against you!!!

As others have said, become a TER VIP, and READ the reviews, don't just look at the numbers.  No, it does not guarantee success, but it does vastly improve the chances.