I understand the need for safety, security & screening.. This morning I filled out all of the screens for p411.. many, many screens.. but then trashed the whole thing and did not submit it.. My issue is that I hate to give my credit card number to anyone.. I have had repeated issues with the number being stolen.. and even though I'm not responsible for charges.. getting a new credit card and giving everyone that uses it is a huge pain... Plus I have another issue with giving out my credit card.. Like many here, I am in a long term (40 years+) loveless marriage.. OK.. same old story.. but there are a ton of assets at stake & anyone I know that has been through a divorce.. is pretty much broke forever.. and I'm not willing to let that happen.. OK.. so what does that have to do with my charge card? Before I committed to my "new" hobby.. I was looking all over for a solution to my lack of contact with the opposite sex.. so , I opened an Asley Madison account (married people, meeting married people to have an affair).. Ok.. it was free.. then I started getting emails.. to read them I had to give my credit card for a small charge.. so I did.. Then my credit card company called MY HOUSE.. to see if the charges were correct.. They explained to MY WIFE.. that they were from an online dating site and should they be honored?.. HOLY SHIT !! I scrambled.. called Asley Madison who were very nice about backing off the charge.. and I cancelled that card (part of my story: "the # MUST have been stolen").. and I was OK.. so now P411.. and others (Including TER) want my CC #.. no freakin way!.. after that experience.. I can't control what clerk in what office decides that a charge looks suspicious and calls my house.. getting a seperate hidden credit card is also open to issues.. I'm not questioning anyone here with a P411 ID.. I'm just throwing out an issue for me.. and I suppose something to be aware of.. I never want that to happen again..
I'm trying to get approval from p411 using references (I'm not willing to give my personal information to p411). So I'm following some member's experience on TER to start with newbie friendly providers, and ask them to be my reference after dates.
I'm not sure if providers who work with agency is willing/ able to refer me to p411. any thought?
Thanks!
...to screen you. Being newbie friendly means they won't require a reference from a provider. They will still need to screen you in some way. If you use an agency that accepts P411 than P411 will likely accept a reference from that agency. But the agency will want to screen you before they will schedule an appointment for you with one of their providers and that usually involves personal info.
Giving your info to P411 is better because it's just one time of giving it out and P411 has a solid reputation for being discrete.
thank you, but not sure if p411 will permanently destroy clients' information. what if they get busted, all the information and reviews will be used as evidence.
Giving your info to P411 is better because it's just one time of giving it out and P411 has a solid reputation for being discrete.
...for them existing or having that info. They are not an agency. Your provider in the U.S. could be busted and LE get your info from her. How do you know she destroyed it? An agency may say they destroy the info but how do you know?
If you see a independent provider that doesn't ask for your info how do you know she isn't LE or that she is safe. She doesn't care about whether you are legit so she may not be legit. Not all, I repeat Not all, but providers that don't want to check you out could be looking to rip you off, or turn you in.
If you do give your info to several providers just to get them to refer you to P411 is that any safer than your info being in One place not in the U.S.?
Just some things to think about. You have to do this the way you think is best.
I understand the need for safety, security & screening.. This morning I filled out all of the screens for p411.. many, many screens.. but then trashed the whole thing and did not submit it.. My issue is that I hate to give my credit card number to anyone.. I have had repeated issues with the number being stolen.. and even though I'm not responsible for charges.. getting a new credit card and giving everyone that uses it is a huge pain... Plus I have another issue with giving out my credit card.. Like many here, I am in a long term (40 years+) loveless marriage.. OK.. same old story.. but there are a ton of assets at stake & anyone I know that has been through a divorce.. is pretty much broke forever.. and I'm not willing to let that happen.. OK.. so what does that have to do with my charge card? Before I committed to my "new" hobby.. I was looking all over for a solution to my lack of contact with the opposite sex.. so , I opened an Asley Madison account (married people, meeting married people to have an affair).. Ok.. it was free.. then I started getting emails.. to read them I had to give my credit card for a small charge.. so I did.. Then my credit card company called MY HOUSE.. to see if the charges were correct.. They explained to MY WIFE.. that they were from an online dating site and should they be honored?.. HOLY SHIT !! I scrambled.. called Asley Madison who were very nice about backing off the charge.. and I cancelled that card (part of my story: "the # MUST have been stolen").. and I was OK.. so now P411.. and others (Including TER) want my CC #.. no freakin way!.. after that experience.. I can't control what clerk in what office decides that a charge looks suspicious and calls my house.. getting a seperate hidden credit card is also open to issues.. I'm not questioning anyone here with a P411 ID.. I'm just throwing out an issue for me.. and I suppose something to be aware of.. I never want that to happen again..
...to take care of this. They have a reputation for working with folks to get them verified. I'm with you about forms etc. but if I can talk to someone then we can get it done.
Unfortunately, sites like Ashley Madison, TER, and P411 are forced to use European banks to process credit cards, which often throws up flags for credit card companies, causing them to call to verify the transaction.
The good news is we are also happy to take money orders, via regular mail (2 weeks) or UPS/FedEx (2 days). Sure, it takes a little longer, but it's a more discreet way to pay and eliminates any paper trail.
Feel free to contact us at P411 with any questions you have, we are available via phone, chat or email!
Sincerely,
Gina
I did the P411 thing today.. They warn you about the potential red flag.. I called my CC company and gave them a heads up that the charge would be made and that it was OK..
you can generate a random temporary card number if you have citi credit cads