What do providers prefer, going to a hotel or a clients house for outcalls?

Get a decent hotel, a bottle of wine & 2 glasses.







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three different ladies visit me and only had one that was a little skittish the first time.  Of course I do live alone.  The first was my first hobby experience ever.

I prefer going to a client's house.

Where I live at in Nassau County (NY), too many providers are getting busted at hotels.

I totally prefer going to the gent's home over hotel.  All the stings seem to happen at hotels.

I would have to say the most likely place to get busted would be a hotel room. OTOH Your risk of a psycho would be greater at a private residence. I know that hotel security and LE are both rather unpopular here, but they are handy to have around if your client turns out to be a wack job.

I  like it better for  the girls to come to me and especialy to my home as I am single . I have never had any problem .

Very wise.  All the screening in the world may not protect you from some psycho guy who happens to loose it when you are with him.

As a guy, I don't want a lady knowing where I live.  Too much risk.

same here, i had three outcall dates to my apt, i live alone of course, but it always went well.

I have to disagree.

Ive been to numerous FIRST TIME CLIENTS house and have never had a problem.  Why?? I screen.

If you screen.  Get your comfort zone met.  No problem.  If you do, and your gut tells you different, dont go.  Simple as that.

Maybe its the type of provider/hobbyist you need to look at........

Certainly, a level of trust and comfort can be established before an first meeting, but I prefer the neutrality of a hotel - or better yet a hotel bar for initial face to face contact.

I understand that other ladies may feel differently, and I can respect that...but to me it just feels much safer, and inherently more discreet, to forgo meeting at a private residence for a first date.

Please stay safe ladies...

and joining the great bunch of guys and gals willing to help the newbies!!!

jazz32

I'm just glad to be able to contribute. This board is a great resource.

Here's another pic, just for fun.

You totally missed my second concern.  Yes, Sophie, you are a well-respected lady here.  

On the other hand, some newbie might not do adequate research, fall for some hot pic of a lady with minimal review history, and find himself in a bad situation when she possibly, repeat possibly, tries to blackmail him.

It is all about risk tolerence.