I was wondering for a first meeting with a provider does anyone recommend more or less time? In general I don't like to rush maybe these pros and cons to each but I was thinking for a first time maybe more time like 1/1/2 hours might be good ? I don't know perhaps I'm thinking of it it terms of too much like date but there has to be some level of getting to know a person in any business right?

I should add here that i'm more looking for one main reg (in gen maybe an occasional deviation from  that) provider and was thinking the 1st session could be a screening for that plus the actual session.

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all found here in various threads.  Do a search using the "keyword" and you will find many of the answers (from all sorts of authorites) to your questions.

Also, you should read the newbie manual before proceeding on that first session.  Once you have done that, and read several pages on this board, and can now answer all of these questions (without cheating), you will be ready (at least as ready as you'll be) to go and see the "gal of your dreams".

But to answer your question on this topic (OP), I would recommend a longer initial session with a gal.  To start with a 90 minute session should give you ample time to "bond" with your gal, allow you to relax, and hopefully pop a couple of times in the session.  Once you have that first one down, you will be better able to judge the timeframes that work best for you.

Now start doing your homework...and report back with a review after you see the gal.  And if there is a topic that you absolutely can't find, post it here and many should be able to give you some guidance.

ok thanks i'm trying to locate the maniual now havent found it yet

I have only done 1-hour dates.  It's enough time for me.  If you don't click with her you can always leave early, and if you do click, the best tip you can give her is to make another date.  Maybe then try for longer date.  Hour and a half would be too much to pay for, esp if you decide after 30 minutes or so, that you are not really having as good of a time as you expected.

Lou

Whenever I meet a provider for the first time, I usually go for the 30min sessions first. That way if we click I can take my time, and not feel rush. Then I'll decide if i want to have a longer session with her in the future.

Some providers I get a long with well, but 30mins is all I need.

Then you run into those where you pay for the 1hr, but she expects you come in 10mins, or says I know you paid for the hour, but i have another client waiting for me downstairs so you gotta hurry.