Get VIP membership if you don't already have same and PM people who have reviewed the gal in question and ask them about her.

God must have been asleep when this one came off the assembly line. Time for you to see the wizard and ask for a brain.

Don't be so cheap.  Yes, you probably need to pay for VIP at least some of the time.  It's far cheaper than even one spoiled date.  
Yes, TER must make some money along with providing us with a service.  Trying to circumvent the system to save yourself a few bucks??  If you can affort to hobby...  you can afford a free email address...  and I recommend a hobby phone.  
I promised myself I'd not do anything stupid when I started the hobby...  
You are taking unnecessary risks...  I don't want to read about you getting divorced, outted, or busted.

No Way posting a real address on a public site.

How do I get in touch with outher hobbiests to find out details on a provider?  Thanks!

-- Modified on 11/17/2010 8:54:20 PM

Are you sure you want to post an email address that reveals your real-life identity?

you can send them a P.M. on TER's mail system.

or he would not have been asking about how to contact other hobbyists about reviews.  He would know about the PM system.  Maybe you should email him???  From a "throw away account" and let him see the error of his ways.

Looks like we are on the same wavelength.  Someone has to protect him.

Right on.  Second the motion. VIP is totally worth it.  My comeback as a hobbyist would not have been possible, safely, without it.  I've been on other sites, including Bigdoggie and BestGFE and they're fine but don't compare.  Everything about this site, if you're a VIP, works better.  And, no, I'm not a shill for management (but hey, guys, I'm as big a whore as anyone so if you want to comp me for this go right ahead! lol)

It helps to have another set of eyes, for when the real world gets between me & TER.

Just because the P4P scene is a little lacking, the beer is watered down, and they roll up the side walks at 10PM does not mean Utah which is me home state is not a great place to party. Oh.... wait it does ,doesn't it. Never mind. Banish him back to Utah. But I think it may be a bit too harsh.

It's far easier to not run around on my GF when I'm there.  I've hit at least one more garden spot in the Beehive State since we last talked.  I've done my time, dammit.

Utah does have its upsides, like world class outdoor recreation, you can walk the streets at night alone without fear, and there is jobs here unlike most every where else. Good place to raise a family. Utah is just not a good place to party. But that does not stop me.