Hello,

This is my first post and my first venture into being a provider.  I have so many questions, but the first one is that I'm of a certain age, where I fear that I might be rejected by a client.  Is this a rational fear?  Has it happened to you?  

Secondly, when starting out do I work with an Escort Service.  I've never done this before but I have a meeting scheduled for tomorrow.  

Third and last.  Is there much interest in older woman who want to provide a Girl Friend Experience?

In my experience, successful providers come in all shapes, sizes and ages.  Attitude and performance are more important to me than a gal's age.  In fact there are most times I'd rather see a lady closer to my generation, than one who is young enough to be my daughter.

As for working with an Escort Service, or Agency, it is up to you.  Yes you will split the fee, but the agency will do your marketing and screening, and will already have an established list of contacts.  If you have your own site, contacts, and are willing to treat this venture like a business, the indie route can also work for you!!!

Best wishes,

jazz32

I think you should not worry about that. It is all good for all ages. Some men like their ladies young and others like them a bit more mature and experienced. Along with maturity can come often times, Our passionate and sensual ways.
By that you probably know I am not in the young catagory, so that being said don't let that bother you. I entered into this world at a later age and am very happy I did. I did also have some reserves about my age and if I would be recieved well. You will be. Like Jazz said its not your age but your sensuality passion and your personality that will make you truely successful.

Oh I'm sorry ~~where are my manners~~Welcome!!!

Nicole

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Hey Evilcat1 -

I'm in the same boat with you on number one - perhaps we'll both sail to great places?

I'm hoping the answer to number three is yes.  They do say it takes all kinds . . .

~Lara

Just put up a website that states your approximate age (with photos) and you won't have to worry about rejection from anyone who has been to your site.

I can't speak to your other two questions.

Hell, If I can do this at my age...anyone can.

If you have a website with your description and photos, guys will decide if they want to see you before contacting you. Thus, you won't know if you are rejected. You will also be rejected for things other than your age (guy looking for a blond, or an asian, etc.).

I would not recommend working for an escort service. Just a hunch. Learn to screen guys yourself.

"Much interest"? Depends on how you define "much", and where you are. If you are near a big city, there are guys looking for all types of ladies. I actually enjoy the more mature ladies. For me, they are easier to talk to.

I find that women in late 30's and their 40's can be  just the GFE for men in their mid 40's.  Sexuality and personality can be more important that age.  Attractiveness is probably always a major issue.  Rejection is probably always present in this business.  Rather than worry about rejection, just give it a try, and you will quickly have the answer.

Thank you all for your kind responses.  So here is what I'm dealing with.  I look like Gidget/Sally Field etc.  When I look at some of the other providers web pages, I see awesome women wearing lace and leather. I'm completely straight, but even I would go there.  Gidget would have looked silly in those outfits.  I'm a man's white shirt, white knickers sort of gal.

For those of you who responded and have mentioned contacting you, how do I send a private message.

Evilcat1 - New Newbie

and I have clients who are extremely happy to see me!  Men are looking for different things, which is why the hobby is so great.  One guy may want a 20 something, another a 40 something.

The key is to have fun!!  Enjoy your erotic experiences.  To be honest, unless you enjoy the biz, you won't succeed as guys can tell easily if a woman is in it for reasons other than mutual pleasure!

SINfully sinthia

to me that says petite, cute, and with the right attitude, is definitely a look to which I am personally attracted.

There are many ways a woman can look sexy, and most do not involve lace or leather.   I can imagine a great photo gallery of a  petite, cute, playful gal wearing a man's white shirt and boxers, (you might want to add a fedora).  The simple rule is to be true to yourself, and present yourself in a means in which you are comfortable.

Yes, many gals post pics that pander to fantasies of many guys (lace and leather).   But you would be surprised by the number of reviews, and posts on the boards that appreciate meeting a "real girl" at the door, wearing a t-shirt and jeans.

OK, Private Message.  To PM you have to be a TER VIP.  For the ladies, that means you either have to be a paying member (http://www.theeroticreview.com/vip/index.asp), or if you have reviews on TER, contact [email protected] to link your review profile to your user name.  This will give you free limited VIP access to TER.

Now how do you know if you have been reviewed?  The easiest way to search the review database leaving all fields blank, except for your business phone number.

If you don't have reviews, and don't have a site yet, and are not a VIP, you can always post an email address for folks to contact you.  If you go this route, I'd suggest that you create a new email address on gmail, yahoo, hotmail, specifically for the purpose.  There are a lot of good folks on this board willing to help and advise, but remember, it is a public board!

Hope this helps,

jazz32

I would be happy to answer any q's you have. You can pm me here, or e-mail me at:

[email protected]

All of us where new at one time and we all had fears of rejection. Many times I wonder if this is for me as I don't get the attention others get on the Florida board. I sometime wonder why i'm here. I sort of sit on the sideline and wait my turn and it does come. Go to your local board and read the post, get a website from  rareescorts.com. It's fee and easy to use. Add a couple pictures, get a phonenumber; I use a voice mail with pager and then put the TER seal on it. You now have a turnkey operation. Advertise on your board and chat with the providers. Don't rush as it will come to you. Once a week ads on your local board with a picture will give you the attention you want right away. Good luck and stay safe.
    Kisses Haley

Sinthia your NOT a hot milf.

You are a unreal fucking knockout, stunning, smokin ,every other woman your age jealous to no end...hot milf...lol..

Just wanted that on the record...lol

Only thing that stinks about it is that it will be another decade untill I can qualify to see you... I am 28....