First and foremost, read the FAQs for Newbies Manual that is pinned to the top of this board. It has all the rules of TER and will really help you. If you have any specific questions after reading it, bring them here and we will help you with them.
Next, make use of the Photo-Only Board. Get some great looking pics of yourself. You're allowed to post there once a day, but use fresh pictures as much as you can. Men are very visually oriented, and a great picture will bring in business. I have met several gals this way, and they were all great providers.
After that, post frequently on your local board, and feel free to post photos when you do. I strongly suspect that English is not your native tongue, so if you know someone who can transcribe your thoughts artfully, this might make for a better result.
Encourage your clients to write reviews of you on TER. This is probably the most important step to obtaining legitimacy.
Putting how you express yourself aside, you seem to express a lot of openess, sincerity, and innocence. These qualities are very attractive, and I can see you having mass appeal. I hope you go far.
Welcome to TER.
