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Older Men :)
newtodagame 2062 reads
posted
1 / 14

I would thought they'd like younger guys?

Businesses 22 Reviews 604 reads
posted
3 / 14

You'll soon find out that providers generally prefer older gents (35+ in most cases).
They all have their reasons for this.
Some will make exceptions to their rule if you're polite and respectful.

There are still plenty of providers who don't mind seeing young guys.
Keep looking and stay polite/respectful when contacting them.
Also, you'll need some references and reviews.
Posted By: newtodagame
I would thought they'd like younger guys?

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 586 reads
posted
4 / 14

and from comments I've read, the young guys want to just pound away as long as they can.  The older guys, of which I am one, tend to treat her more like a real woman than a cum depository.  Pleasuring the lady is something I and many of my older brethren enjoy, as well as having her pleasure us.

Providers are people too, and they have feelings, which should not be ignored.  I'm not at her place just to get a bj, stick it in her, get my rocks off, and go.  I'm there for a sensual time for both of us.

Swim

LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 465 reads
posted
5 / 14

I would venture to say that about 80- 90% of hobbyists are over 35. Certainly the majority are even much older than that. So a provider basically has no choice but to see "older" men there are just too many of us. If a provider went the other way and only wanted to see "younger" men she would have a harder time finding  clients.
Of course, the added benefits of "maturity" also play a role like others have said.So its a win-win for both parties.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 607 reads
posted
6 / 14

...providers who prefers guys closer to my age. I just tend to connect better with them because I have more in common with them.  

However, I will say that the downside to that is there's a higher percentage of dumbasses in my age demographic than others.

connrogue2 12 Reviews 700 reads
posted
7 / 14

Quote:
Posted By: macdaddy1944
The Top Ten Reasons why providers love older gentlemen...  
 1.] we always show up    
 2.] we never argue about rates  
 3.] we tend to score higher on our reviews  
 4.]we look for positives in our sessions..not negatives  
 5.] we rarely MSOG  
 6.]we never fall in love  
 7.] we are considerate  
 8.]we are always respectful  
 9.] we do not try to pound our ladies through the floorboards  
 10]we never rush pleasure..

And -- sometimes,  because of our Alzheimers,  we donate twice

EasyTimes 7 Reviews 595 reads
posted
8 / 14

And a lot depends on what you consider old, but...

Older men are farther along in their careers and have more disposable income with which to hobby making them a larger client pool.

Older men are, for the most part, more respectful, more generous, and more sexually aware.

Older men tend to better appreciate the 'full' experience of a date, and generally know better what they want and need.  They are less hurried and often pay for longer dates.

Older men are generally more interested in finding out what it takes to please a lady, in addition to his own pleasure.

Older can be replaced with 'mature', or 'experienced', which is why many ladies don't prefer 'younger guys'.  Still it is all relative to how old you are, how you act, and how you treat others, in the end.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 520 reads
posted
9 / 14

that most older men have. I've never seen a guy who was 50+ post a thread about not getting his 2-4 cups in the time he paid for, like I have seen with the younger crowd. Now, I actually prefer younger men because I have more in common with them, and I am a bit wild and immature lol. Older men also are less judging as far as looks go, so providers who are up in years and not in perfect shape know they are easier to get 9s and 10s from. That's just a fact. Rarely is a hot, younger guy going to rate a 50 year old provider over a 7 or 8 in looks, but a 60 year old will.  

Younger guys generally expect a super model and a porn star, whilst the older gents are easily captivated by ego stroking. The better we make them feel about themselves, the better we look and perform. Most younger men could not care less about that...they want you to be a 10 point blank, and no amount of eye batting or ego stroking is going to sway them.  

I think you'll find that the FBSM type providers are not usually this way, because they are not offering msog or fs anyway. They tend to love younger guys.

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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 685 reads
posted
10 / 14

I am the same way. It's not that I don't like older men, but too old creeps me out as if I am fkin my grandpa. Um, no thanks. It is also about attitude, and I have met several men in their 50s, who I assumed were 20 something before we met lol. It's not that I don't like older men, but almost as if I feel them being taken aback by me, and how wild I am. I usually feel I am doing them a disservice and they would be better off with someone older, or at least more mature lol.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 589 reads
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11 / 14
Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 503 reads
posted
12 / 14

Yes ma'am! You hit the nail on the head, as usual.  

I know a lot of ladies have found that the more mature gents are more respectful, etc. (and I'm not saying they're wrong) but I've dealt with guys older than my dad who were creepy/obnoxious/gross, and I've dealt with guys my age who were perfect gentlemen (oh god I love military guys so damn much).  

Again, it's not like the older gents aren't lovely. It's just that I say "twat" a lot and talk about things like Marilyn Manson and tell jokes about stoned alligators. The younger guys are just more likely to "get" me. Plus the older guys are less likely to be okay with the excessive amount of tattoos. :)

BabydollLarsson See my TER Reviews 600 reads
posted
13 / 14

I love older men in this profession and my personal life. Playing with them gets me super hot. I've been this way for a while now... I guess im a grandpa fcker?

-- Modified on 5/15/2013 2:18:44 PM

dontknowanymore 4 Reviews 714 reads
posted
14 / 14

I think you and London just moved into the #1 spot for me in the category of "most desired duo"

I seriously love sexy and sassy dames....

How do I get you two in the same city?  (rhetorical, I know how :)

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