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ok, but even then...
lstormus 1378 reads
posted
1 / 18
So if I have a current ad, and price for services

Is there a reason to bring more $?  

I know some people mention tips, is that for every provider, certain %, how does all of this work purely from an etiquette standpoint?

If the add says $240/hour, and I lay down $240 in an envelope is that an insult??

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 573 reads
posted
2 / 18
No it's not an insult

I rarely if ever tip. However, I have extended a session, so I usually bring extra $, for that reason.  

Posted By: lstormus
Is there a reason to bring more $?    
   
 I know some people mention tips, is that for every provider, certain %, how does all of this work purely from an etiquette standpoint?  
   
 If the add says $240/hour, and I lay down $240 in an envelope is that an insult??

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 636 reads
posted
3 / 18
As long as she's not an up-seller, you're good.

Some ladies have notes on their sites (or it's mentioned in her reviews) that she charges extra for Greek, PSE, or other things.  So if that's the case, and you're even remotely interested in those activities, you may want to bring that amount with you but do not place it in the envelope unless you're both agreed that those things will happen.  

Just a little advice (although I'm sure you wouldn't do this): if her rate is $250 and you only have 20s then do NOT give her $240 or even think about asking her for change.   Yes, I've actually had people ask for change or even short me by $5-10 rather than overpay (tip) me that same amount.  THAT is insulting.  :-)

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PS~ A lot of clients won't give independent providers cash tips, instead preferring to bring small gifts (often gift cards), which is why I have a "wish list".  I actually enjoy gift cards more than a cash tip, anyway.   :-

LanaDaSilva See my TER Reviews 561 reads
posted
4 / 18
Bring extra in case u want more

I 100% agree with everything Debbienooner wrote..
I have gotten tips a few times but usually because we spent extra time OTC having drinks.  
U should always bring extra in the event that u want more time or more services.  But don't put it in the envelope. Gift cards are nice. I have had gentleman who like brining gifts.  This isn't a requirement.  U don't have to do that.  
Good luck

Epsilon_Eridani 633 reads
posted
5 / 18
ok, but even then...

... the hobbyist *should* ask the provider beforehand about the extra services especially Greek stuff.

Some providers don't like to be surprised with requests for extras without some advance notice.  
Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl
Re: As long as she's not an up-seller, you're good. Some ladies have notes on their sites (or it's mentioned in her reviews) that she charges extra for Greek, PSE, or other things.  So if that's the case, and you're even remotely interested in those activities, you may want to bring that amount with you but do not place it in the envelope unless you're both agreed that those things will happen.    
 

lstormus 485 reads
posted
6 / 18
Re: Bring extra in case u want more

Ok thanks very much ladies, I just wanted to make sure I understood the proper etiquette beforehand,  your answers were very helpful :)

GaGambler 543 reads
posted
7 / 18
Please stick to talking to trees. VERY bad advice as usual

Newbies especially should not be asking about services at all, much less "extra services for extra money". Are you trying to get the newbs on BL's or DNS lists before they ever get started?

Yes, it is a catch 22 about extra services, but the default setting for every one ESPECIALLY newbies is NOT to discuss specific services until you are BCD with your clothes off. If that means some activities might be off the table until the next session, so be it. That's better than having a hooker think you are LE trying to entrap her into talking about "sex for money"

mrfisher 115 Reviews 619 reads
posted
8 / 18
Tipping is a controversial topic...

Given the breakdown of sentiment on this, I'd say most guys do not tip.

I often do tip as long as I feel the service merited it, and I think it is both proper to do and worthwhile as well.

Somewhere along the lines of 25-30% is what I do, but less so for longer sessions

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 430 reads
posted
9 / 18
Interesting concept on longer dates. eom


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SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 471 reads
posted
10 / 18
I never tip....

I do round up if I don't have the correct cash. I feel that returning for subsequent visits is enough "thank you"...

i am always aware of time and have never gone over.. And I am a simple man so extra services are not required

1192967 45 Reviews 551 reads
posted
11 / 18
Please get off the Newbie Board. This is the second time...

...you've come on recently giving bad (wrong) advice. Thankfully Admin removed that portion of the previous one.

hbyist+truth=;( 487 reads
posted
12 / 18
God you're an idiot

Yeah ask the hooker in your email if she adds another 50 bucks for ass fucking, well done on the newbie board. GTFA.

1192967 45 Reviews 448 reads
posted
13 / 18
Usually I'd reprimand someone for a response like this on the Newbie...

...Board but in this case I agree. My post was "nice" but my thoughts weren't.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 429 reads
posted
14 / 18
It is often said that the best tip to schedule another encounter . . .

with the lady you enjoyed seeing. I think most providers would agree that a repeat date is much less stressful than seeing a new guy.

earthshined 461 reads
posted
15 / 18
No. if she wants more she should charge more.EOM


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Epsilon_Eridani 457 reads
posted
16 / 18
really? are you that dense??

you need to remove that big piece of wood out of your rear end!

why are you on the Newbie board in the 1st place, xyz23? Hmm?? Stop acting like a child.
Posted By: xyz23
Re: Please get off the Newbie Board. This is the second time...you've come on recently giving bad (wrong) advice. Thankfully Admin removed that portion of the previous one.

Epsilon_Eridani 459 reads
posted
17 / 18
2nd time??

I didn't even know I provided bad advise before.  

since when did you become Miss Ann Landers of the Newbie Board?
Posted By: xyz23
Re: Please get off the Newbie Board. This is the second time...you've come on recently giving bad (wrong) advice. Thankfully Admin removed that portion of the previous one.

GaGambler 414 reads
posted
18 / 18
xyz, along with PS, BPS and Debbie give some of the best advice on this board

You give some of the worst.  

PLEASE either go back into the forest or go back to stalking providers in Ohio and leave the newbs alone. They don't need to get put on DNS lists before they even get their bearings here due to following your horrible advice, now shoo troll shoo.

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