Defining the Girl Friend Experience is a tough one, but quite a few threads on it. There are some good general outlines though. A non-rushed, very relaxed atmosphere is a must. Extra time spent talking and relaxing with each other is also popular. The lady will be very attentive to your comfort. Most also consider a GFE to include a slow build up to the action with plenty of kissing and foreplay.

If you have found a lady that you click with, congratulations. If not keep looking, there are plenty of ladies with all different kinds of personalities and experiences.

You asked, "What is typical of a GFE provider?" Good question, we (Hobbyists) all have our own opinions on what makes a GFE.

If you know how to do a search of the discussions, look at Fortitude's Three Pillars of GFE'ism. It tends to set a standard for providers that really want to be called a GFE provider. You'll probably have to search as far back as 120 days.

As far as spending two hours "getting to know each other" I would tell you that that is your choice. I don't spend more than 15 minutes getting to know someone. If she wants to "talk" she can stay later than our appointment; I'll gladly tell her my life story. Just keep reading the reviews and read the discussions on the boards. You can learn a lot.

Remember, as with all women, YMMV.

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Girls who offer a GFE usually try to place a premium price on their services.
Therefore, I epect the following.

- non rushed
- very friendly atmosphere
- hugging/cuddling
- french kissing
- bbbj
- and only if she wants to (of course) anal

As what a person above said, the term gets tossed around alot and it's meaning is being diminshed, esp. when some moron says the girl offers a GFE and all she does is talk talk talk talk talk.   (YEAH!  Now that's a girlfriend for ya!)  But it's not really in the spirit of what a guy wants with a GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE.  

There are those right now getting ready to press the reply button, save your time, I'll post it right here:  blah blah blah safety, blah blah blah you're crazy, blah blah blah there is no "absolute" definition.    

Once again, that's what "I" look for because that's what I want a girlfriend to do. And if I'm going to pay a premium for a service that's billed as a GFE, I expect to reciecve the service that one would expect from a girlfriend.

Case in point:  Some fool posted that this girl in the Valley offered a GFE in the free part of the review area.  To make matters worse I'm not a VIP at the time but the rating is a 7 or 8 so I figure ok great, expect a bbbj.  I get there, and before I hand over the money I find out that the girl doesn't kiss and doesn't offer a bbbj but she's charging a premium price.  Sure she's pretty, but she's no model and I've met prettier providers.  So I walk and I'm glad I did.  2 hours later, I found someone much better (Dillion - who I think isn't working anymore    

I'm paying for a one hour fantasy and when I put the money on the dresser I expect to get the fantasy I paid for.

It's a question of semantics (did I spell that right? lol) but it's best that you know what you want and set the standard that way.  If you don't need a bbbj and being non rushed is what works for you then cool.  But PLEASE - when you leave a review, don't toss around the GFE label loosely.  Rate her properly.   Read the posting agreement - No BBBj - then the highest she should get is a 6 - I don't care if she gave you advice that got you a promotion - she gets nothing higher than a 6.   Who cares if she got you the promotion and kissed you with some tounge - no BBBJ, the highest she gets is a 6.

Standards need to be set and held on to and it doesn't help when a guy goes gaga for some girl and rates her incorrectly.  It throws the rest of us off and wastes our time.

good luck to you.