and less so for the provider than for you if you think about it.

In any case, how can it make for trouble? Let's count the ways:

1.  She could be a rip off artist and run off with your silverware while you are in the shower.

2.  You could be surprised by various people (like spouses coming home unexpectedly.)

3.  She could be casing the joint and come back later or tip off abettors to come and clean you out.

4.  If you have an argument and she goes a little nutty, it's not so good for her to know where you live.

5.  Nosey neighbors who like to watch through the windows and gossip.

6.  Incriminating evidence could be left behind (condom wrappers, etc.)

I'm sure I could come up with more, but you get the idea.

On the other hand, if it is a provider you have gotten to know well and trust, and if you live alone, and if your neighbors aren't particularly a problem or you don't give a rat's ass what they think; then a sleep over or day visit is a nice change from the hotel scene.

You can cook a meal, play music and relax like in no other place.

Saves on the cost of the hotel too which is nice.

-- Modified on 5/16/2007 5:48:40 AM

Mrfisher makes a number of really good points.

But if you know you are dealing with a quality professional AND you know EXACTLY where your SO is - AT ALL TIMES! Then it can be a fun time.

Personally I LOVE to visit in private homes - some of our best dates are people's homes.  But going the other way around I put a lot of extra security in place to ensure I'm not walking into a psycho lair and end up chained in someone's dungeon.

Ooooh - that sounds sooo delicious!  And we just released our first bondage video too!

Giggle,
TS Jamie

in any other situation?  Especially one who's real name you do not know?  I think not, so why would you do that with a provider unless you are single, live alone, have a great security system or nothing to loose?

Greetings to all-
(*I'm back stateside for a couple weeks and had to pop on to add my thoughts*)
gentleman new to the site are encouraged to use the "search" feature located on the upper right hand side of the top of the forum. (*there is a wealth of information available just by taking the time to research it and read*)

Here are a couple links to threads from the past that listed specific details that could pose a problem to having a provider in your home:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19700&boardID=33&page=

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=17693&boardID=33&page=

Play safe & stay well....   kisses ~Tori  



-- Modified on 5/16/2007 1:05:59 PM

Welcome back, and hope all is well with you!  Don't be such a stranger.  Your input is always welcome here,

jazz32

BTW - I edited the links on your post so that they don't run off the screen, you might want to check that they point to where you want them to.

I checked them Jazz- thanks...... and, thank you for the welcome. I will be back stateside for a couple weeks. I'm happy to drop in and say hello.
kisses ~Tori

just read your postings..thanks for the insight.