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Just my thoughts on a Provider in your home-
Tori Of ATL See my TER Reviews 3688 reads
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I’ve stated my position on this subject numerous times, but  I feel so strong about the subject that I am re-posting my original thoughts. (*My apologies for the delay in replying to the thread, I am traveling for the next few weeks*)  kisses …Tori

My thoughts on outcalls to private homes....
Posted by Tori Of Atlanta, 7/4/2006 2:52:33 PM  

I do not make outcalls to private residence. I
understand that there are providers who may consider it and ... I have been to a clients home on occasion. ~But that is the exception and not the rule.

First the considerations on your part... IF, you are ok with the possibility of the neighbors not noticing who is at your home -especially the woman down the road who is a friend of your wife!!..... then you are pass that.

Now, what type of vehicle will this provider be in? hmmmm, will she just opt to hire a car and have a Lincoln with a driver sitting in it outside your home for an hour or so.... will she borrow her roommate's '98 Gremlin and leave a huge oil stain on your drive?... hmmmm, will she drive up in a M3,Jag or 500SL and let it sit outside your home (*while your wife is gone*)

Now past the vehicle issue.... will the provider brush her hair in your bathroom and accidentally drop a hair on the floor (*or do you plan to vacuum when she leaves?*) will she wash her hands and dry them on your guest towels? hmmmm, might want to lay out towels for her use and then plan to wash them after she leaves.

What about the possibility of disposing of an item
that might seem out of place in your home... ie:
condom, condom wrapper.. etc etc are you planning on placing those in a bag and taking them out with you the next day when you leave for work?

I'll stop here, I just hope I have made my point.

Keep it simple.... most men are doing good to pay
attention to the details of showering with the same soap they use at home... let alone trying to notice everything else that could be a tip off to your behavior.

Men generally have a concern for the materialist items in their home but in my opinion, the assets in his life: ~family, friends, job, etc.... are just as valuable and need to be protected as much or more than his material belongings.

My incall is safe, private and unbelievably discreet. I do make outcalls to limited, specific properties when I am in my hometown. Outside of that, I would have to have a tremendous amount of confidence in the gentleman to venture into his home! (*and he has to be totally single, that is no woman in his residence what so ever*)

I might think twice about a provider that is allowing herself to walk into a private residence where anything could be waiting behind the door and there is not the security of calling the front desk for assistance......  (*just my thoughts*)

Play safe, know your provider   kisses ~Tori

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TiLoBrown4173 reads

OK, now I know this is a newbie question...but thats why I'm here ;). Anyway, I was wondering if it was common for a provider to to an outcall to a house?

lv2daty2639 reads

some even want only to come to your house and not a hotel for their comfort level.

If you know and trust the provider, or she has a long, strong review history there is not much concern for you other than nosey neighbors etc.

 Conversely; an unknown/un-reviewed provider from Craigslist could be a can of worms that you wish you never opened in your home.

 If you have a wife or SO; either way it is at your own peril.  

TiLoBrown2340 reads

Thanks FreedomRider. I think thats one of the holding me back in calling a provider since I don't have much to spend and don't know many hourly hotels around here.

you are better off finding a lady who hosts incall.  

There's only one girl I bring to my home but she's a personal friend and doesn't have money to host incall at a hotel.  I definitely wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know to my home although several providers have let me into their private homes without knowing me.

The few times I've done it, I've had several sessions with the provider before. It has always worked out great, it saves on motels, and is safer. Providers seem to enjoy themselves more too.

karmacoma2535 reads

Most times you will find that it cost less to visit her at her incall location than for her to meet you.  

Also, it will give you more options if you feel that she has misrepresented herself (B&S).  As stated below, it's less stressful to walk away than to close the door on YOUR house!

Good luck
KC

Cheaper, what 25 maybe as much as 50 bucks? WTF? If you find having to ask someone to leave your house too stressful... let me stop, that is too funny. Yea, go catch the Metro Bus. LOL!.

I’ve stated my position on this subject numerous times, but  I feel so strong about the subject that I am re-posting my original thoughts. (*My apologies for the delay in replying to the thread, I am traveling for the next few weeks*)  kisses …Tori

My thoughts on outcalls to private homes....
Posted by Tori Of Atlanta, 7/4/2006 2:52:33 PM  

I do not make outcalls to private residence. I
understand that there are providers who may consider it and ... I have been to a clients home on occasion. ~But that is the exception and not the rule.

First the considerations on your part... IF, you are ok with the possibility of the neighbors not noticing who is at your home -especially the woman down the road who is a friend of your wife!!..... then you are pass that.

Now, what type of vehicle will this provider be in? hmmmm, will she just opt to hire a car and have a Lincoln with a driver sitting in it outside your home for an hour or so.... will she borrow her roommate's '98 Gremlin and leave a huge oil stain on your drive?... hmmmm, will she drive up in a M3,Jag or 500SL and let it sit outside your home (*while your wife is gone*)

Now past the vehicle issue.... will the provider brush her hair in your bathroom and accidentally drop a hair on the floor (*or do you plan to vacuum when she leaves?*) will she wash her hands and dry them on your guest towels? hmmmm, might want to lay out towels for her use and then plan to wash them after she leaves.

What about the possibility of disposing of an item
that might seem out of place in your home... ie:
condom, condom wrapper.. etc etc are you planning on placing those in a bag and taking them out with you the next day when you leave for work?

I'll stop here, I just hope I have made my point.

Keep it simple.... most men are doing good to pay
attention to the details of showering with the same soap they use at home... let alone trying to notice everything else that could be a tip off to your behavior.

Men generally have a concern for the materialist items in their home but in my opinion, the assets in his life: ~family, friends, job, etc.... are just as valuable and need to be protected as much or more than his material belongings.

My incall is safe, private and unbelievably discreet. I do make outcalls to limited, specific properties when I am in my hometown. Outside of that, I would have to have a tremendous amount of confidence in the gentleman to venture into his home! (*and he has to be totally single, that is no woman in his residence what so ever*)

I might think twice about a provider that is allowing herself to walk into a private residence where anything could be waiting behind the door and there is not the security of calling the front desk for assistance......  (*just my thoughts*)

Play safe, know your provider   kisses ~Tori

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You have such great informative, insightful and smart posts and responses. I am not a newbie and am fortunate that I have a discreet incall location. It seems a few years back there was much demand for outcall. At least that has seemed to change quite a bit.

I, personally, don't feel comfortable going to a gentleman's residence for all the reasons you mentioned in your post, which I no longer do. I am single and live alone so I don't have to worry about the stray hair, the possible c in the trash, the scents, etc. It's all about being discreet and safe!

:-)Have fun always and always stay safe...
Jada Stone

If someone else lives at your house, and you're bringing a provider there behind their back, I say DON'T DO IT!  I learned this the hard way.  I lost my best friend of many years by doing this.  That's all I have to say about that.

Another thing.  If you're thinking of bringing a  girl, say off CL, without knowing her or her reputation, she may have a driver/pimp/boyfriend. If things go bad, do you want that guy knowing where you live?  No you don't. If the girl is smart, she WILL have someone watching her back.

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