The only time the white list comes up is if it is my first visit with her, and I ask her if she will give me a white list referral.

Other ways to screen include using verification sites like DateCheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000.  Area of the country will dictate which is more prevalent there.  Where I am, DC and P411 are the most popular.

Other ways to check us out is to ask for provider references from the potential client, and contact them about him.

Swim

I haven't met any that booked an appointment with whitelist only, but I never asked. I only have one listing anyway and I never request them either. On the other hand, having provider okays on P411 has been very helpful, and I have been able to book a few appointments using those.

Smart ladies require clients to send a PM to their TER accounts or ladies contact the refs on the White Lists directly to get the lowdown about clients.

I don't understand why ladies have such a hard time with this.  IMO White Lists are nothing more than free versions of P411 or DC.  Anyone with enough solid refs (2+) can create P411 and DC accounts...real info not required.  The same goes for White Lists.

Just a tip Alexa, the best refs come from people who have actually seen the clients and know how they behave.

Same. I use the White List as a list of references *to be contacted*, and I have the gentleman PM me through the site (same goes for P411, Date-Check, etc. -- I need to know the account actually belongs to him). Regardless of how many WL refs he has, I still need the remainder of his screening info; just a handle and a WL isn't enough to make me feel comfortable meeting.