Newbie - FAQ

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brilove See my TER Reviews 2214 reads
posted
1 / 12

I have been providing for the last 2 years outcall only ... I want to try doing incall at an upscale hotel.  

Any suggestions/help you can give me??? (Such as what is the 2 call system exactly?; Do you set a timer or just note the time?; How far apart do you make appt?; Do you ever offer a glass of wine, etc?; do you offer showers and is that part of the time?; Do you meet them downstairs or at your room?)

Thank you in advance!!

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 614 reads
posted
2 / 12

1. 2-call system.  For a first time client, his first call to you is when you give him the general area where your incall is.  The second call is either the exact address or room number if you are in a hotel.

2.  No timer, that would be a real turn-off for a client.  Some girls have roughly an hour's music in an Ipod or other device and start it when the date begins,  When the music stops, time is up.  Or just pay attention to the time.

3.  Offering refreshments is always welcomed by clients.  

4.  Showers are an option.  If he came directly from work, he may want to shower before play begins.  Or afterward to clean up.  Whether or not it's considered part of the paid-for time is up to you, whatever you are comfortable with.

5.  Meet in your room is easier than downstairs.  You don't have to get dressed to appear out in public.

Hope this helps.  I'm sure the ladies can add more.

Swim

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 730 reads
posted
3 / 12

How you do that, is up to you. I have private incalls and I always start off with wine and cheese or champagne and fruit, as well as an assortment of other goodies. This lasts for about 20-30 min. then the guy has 90 min. of private time on a 2 hour date.  

As far as the set up...do not see many in a day if you are going this route unless it is a super big, busy hotel in a major city. Stick with 4 and above star high rises with active lobby areas, preferably with more than one bar or restaurant. Have extra towels and sheets with you if you plan on seeing more than one guy a day, so you don't have to even bother housekeeping. Leave a tip for them at the end of your stay vs. per day, because there is no reason for them to be in your room that often.  

Make sure the hotel does not require a key card UNLESS you are only seeing one guy, then leaving. You going down to the bar to meet 2 and 3 guys a day, is a bit obvious and also a pain in the ass. You pretend to be booking a room for family (call from a blocked number) and ask about security as if you are concerned. They will let you know if a key card or doorman is there.  

You give them the hotel the 'day of' the appt. when they confirm, and the room number when they arrive in the parking lot. Make sure the idiot does not repeat the room number all loud in the freaking hall or lobby...texting is actually better for this.  

Timer? Buy 60, 90, and 120 minute CDs, or use a timed playlist on your Ipod. They will never know, but you will when that last song becomes your "would you like to take a shower" song, and cue for them to get going. Don't let them overstay unless you just want to lol.

The donation should be put down in the bathroom when they arrive and are hopefully in there to wash their hands or anything else that might not have been washed in the last 2 hours. Don't over think it, and don't cause yourself to be paranoid, or you will get into trouble. Also, do NOT give the hotel an email or phone number that you have used with your provider identity because if they google it, you are busted.  

Do not use the same hotel more than once every 3 months or so, because people catch on. Unless you have a business license for a cover business, it is best to just use different hotels as much as you can.  

Private incalls are another story, but less hassle. I have always gone this route, but even those can be outed by jealous bitches who might set a guy up to go find out where you are hosting from. Hotels have less chance of that happening, and you can easily up and leave in a few minutes should you spot an issue.

-- Modified on 7/3/2013 1:39:36 PM

JenniferJonesDC See my TER Reviews 627 reads
posted
4 / 12

I've heard a few different ways to do it - PM me and I can tell you what I've pieced together....

SolaLove See my TER Reviews 551 reads
posted
5 / 12

I only use hotels when I travel, and often not even then...

The only extra bits I could ad to this post would be -
* Tell your guest how to find the elevators (left of the lobby, ex.,) so they don't wander around lost and calling attention to themselves
* After they arrive, you can wait by the door looking out the peephole so you can open the door without them knocking
* Flip the bolt latch on the door after the arrive.  Housekeeping sometimes just lets themselves in.

I find it useful to have extra guest toiletries for incall - unscented soap (hotels never have unscented soap), mouthwash and dixie cups (YOU will appreciate this!), etc

Oh, and... along with not using your advertised email or phone with the hotel, do NOT access TER and the like on their internet service.  Use your own connection.  They DO watch!
;

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 443 reads
posted
6 / 12

I tend to babble, so I had to give her the short version bwahahhaa. I do all the things you mentioned  by the door, because I want to be right there so he does not have to knock and I stand behind the door, letting him in and not being seen half naked. I hate it when they bend down while I am standing there to grab the damn newspaper ha ha.  

 
I always access TER or email through my phone, never the hotel internet because yes...some hotels are actually tipped off to watch certain people. It is a shame we have to go through all of this today just to have sex with like minded partners. Oh, but I can go to a bar, get piss ass drunk, stand on a table, shake my ass, and flash my tits to 100 people, and that's NOT illegal.

joebunda90 12 Reviews 475 reads
posted
7 / 12
perfectstorm 19 Reviews 503 reads
posted
8 / 12

Not every provider needs a 4 star incall, and not every client gives a shit about a 4 star incall. She should definitely stay away from the notell motels with the outside facing doors, and look for highrise hotels with busy lobbies and restaurants, but star ratings are not that important, and not even available in some cities. In her market especially that would be overkill. Her rate is 250 an hour. Do you think her customers care abvout 4 star hotels? Do you think she can make any profit charging 250 /hr and booking 4 stars hotels? YOur other advice is spot on, and I think you need to chime in on callirose`s thread above about incalls:)

harborview 10 Reviews 547 reads
posted
9 / 12

Have a choice of play lists...  different types of music.  Yes, learn the play lists so you know when the time is up.  If possible face the speakers towards the door (so louder outside to cover sounds) while not blaring at the bed.  
A Favorite gal used a small travel clock...  to the side of the bed.  After quite a few sessions I realized it was present in what ever room we used.  I NEVER caught her looking at it & the bedside clock was turned away or covered.  "Clock Watching" is a minus to a provider.  It's not fair but providers must be excellent time managers.  
If you use a laptop, close it or cover the camera...  after recent events, both parties should be concerned about recordings.  
Refreshments are nice but should be minimized on hour dates...  there just isn't time.  Longer dates, can have more relaxed atmosphere.
Towels are a big issue for incalls.  You should be prepared to offer showers...  or even to join the client...  providers have various ways to get enough towels...  to tipping housekeeping or swapping them.  BTW, very tacky to have your next client see used towels in the bathroom.  (Move used ones to the closet or somewhere between clients.)  

You should leave yourself plenty of time between clients.  You NEVER want to have them pass in the elevator or hall.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 373 reads
posted
11 / 12

LOL, I hear ya on that. If I were only asking for that rate, he can see me at fkin Holiday Inn. I am not going to spend 200+ on a hotel just to make 50 bucks. I did not investigate her before I replied. I just use a certain rule when choosing hotels, and actually 3.5 is fine. 3 star hotels however, are generally NOT high rises and they are family oriented meaning you've got tons of kids running around.  

I would never run an illegal operation in such a place. Very few 3 star hotels have active lobby areas. They "might" have a restaurant and a bar, but it's usually very small with hardly no action, and they generally are not open until 5 pm. Escorts generally make more money during the work day. The Residence Inn by Marriott is actually a good one as far as 3 stars go, and they have doors on the outside, but we are talking condo like, vs. shady. The guys can park right at the building they are going to, and walk right up without having to go through a lobby, so many prefer that. This is the exception and not the rule, though. I generally avoid 3 star hotels.

-- Modified on 7/8/2013 10:20:19 AM

Abrakadabra72 24 Reviews 394 reads
posted
12 / 12

As soon as I enter the room I take a quick discrete glance at the clock by the bed and notice the time.   During the session I also keep my eye on the clock as to not overstay my time.  

For example, when I get there and we do the deed and it takes 30 minutes or so and I've booked and hour I always ask if I can stay a few minutes to chat.  They always say yes.   If her phone starts ringing with other customers I take that as my cue to leave.  I never overstay my time.  

I make it a point to leave 5-10 minutes early.  

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