Is it appropriate to ask a provider, in E-mail or in person, if she has a STD? What about asking if she has AIDS ?

In the past I walked out on two providers because I saw an open sore on their mouths/lips. Needless to say I was not going to take a chance on those ones!

If you do ask, you are likely to never hear from her again, or if in person, be shown the door.  However, I don't blame you for walking out on the ones you did, but, a quality provider will make sure she is disease free, esp if this is her only source of income.

Swim

saying you are disease free?

Why would I knowingly spread it? I, as many of the respected reviewed ladies on here, have morals so if you are thinking about the providers who would be the type to knowingly spread a std then those are the type who would also lie about it right? So in asking you will either risk insulting or get false sercurity.

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if she has one do you really think she is going to tell you? damn. use a body condom dude or don't hobby.  

Just curious because obviously they had herpes symptoms & were still attempting to provide serviced, which is very unprofessional.

On both occasions I said I need to go back to the car to get my wallet... I am sure since I did not return she cursed me...!!

1) The provider will be offended and not see you.
2) The provider will honestly answer "no."
3) The provider will dishonestly answer "no."

You will never get a "yes"answer.

Do you seriously think a provider who is providing while infected will tell you she is infected? LOL!
Anybody with ethics and morals would not be participating in this hobby if they know they have a disease.
Someone without morals who might participate while diseased is certainly not going to be truthful about it!

So bottom line: It's a dumb question, don't ask. On the other hand, if something doesn't look right, you should leave, and you did the right thing there.

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I own 100 shares of Standard Tool & Die, but why the interest in my stock portfolio?