i have read alot of reviews and it seams every one helps them selves to the buffet. is it expected? from a hobbiest

Many of us do enjoy it though.  Often I do, sometimes I don't.
Do it or not (with your partners consent) as the spirit moves you.

Sometimes I get so distracted by the gals cute little pink puckered sphincter that my tongue immediately goes anal spelunking.

Mandatory to be kind, be on-time, be a gentleman, pay without discussion and in the manner requested by the lady.  Be respectful of her as a woman.  Treat her in the manner that you would want someone to treat yourself.

Beyond that, nothing is expected of you except to enjoy your time.  Two consenting adults together to play.  There aren't rules that impose certain "must do's" on you except the ones above.

When meeting a new provider let her show you the way.  You'll quickly learn.  Guaranteed.

Above all else have fun and play safe.  You are in for the time of your life.


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Although most do like to DATY, you are paying for her time, she is not going to make it mandantory that you please her.

a challenge to many of us - the point being to at least try to give the lady a good time also... after all, some ladies provide BBBJ, some not, a personal choice.

Fact of the matter is I'm there everytime on my own (but I always ask permission first)...

what would be the proper way to ask such a thing?

I'm hungry as hell and would love to eat you.

what good is having a party if not everyone cums!!!

As you kiss your way south, a quiet "May I?" will almost always be followed by a response of "Of course".  
If you aren't comfortable asking, for whatever reason, just approach the target slowly and gently.  If she doesn't want you there she will let you know.

Or there is the always popular "I'm hungry as hell and would love to eat you".  LOL

I like  it!

xoxo~
L

Hell, no.  But have yet to be refused.  Last time, I just said, while she was doing a bbbj, 'I can't let you have all the fun', and we moved around so we could both enjoy.

Swim