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british_ties 19 Reviews 2026 reads
posted
1 / 17

Here's how it went down:  

I scheduled an incall for three hours with a provider I hadn't seen before .  So I put the envelope down on the bathroom counter-top when I walk in, she uses the bathroom after I get out, and we get into it.

She was just as her ad said she would be.  While she was outstanding and very beautiful, I decided to end the session after an hour because I wasn't as attracted to her as I thought I would be.

As I'm leaving I ask to use the bathroom, I see that the envelope is still there.  Here's my question, is it okay to retract from a donation that you've already put down?  I decided it would definitely be scumbagish, considering she probably made sure she had scheduled herself ample time to see me for the three hours I requested.

foreroticreview 17 Reviews 610 reads
posted
2 / 17

You scheduled "X" amount of time, and she made it available.  It was your choice to leave, leaving the money there was the ONLY thing to do.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 538 reads
posted
3 / 17

Its totally on you, that you decided to end the session early. Its also totally on you that you decided to schedule a three hour session with someone you never met before. You should pay for the time you scheduled, and not expect a dime back because you ended it early.

Now if the lady did something to end the session early, or to cause you to end it early, then you are entitled to get part of your donation back...but good luck trying.

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 461 reads
posted
4 / 17

In the situation you described above, the early end of the session had nothing to do with the lady. in fact, you indicated she "was outstanding and beautiful". So you recognized, correctly, that the lady had planned her calendar around a three hour appointment and was entitled to be compensated for the full time, regardless if you left early. Its no different than if you book an hour session for $400 and decide simply to leave after 40 minutes (your choice)... You don't get back $133.33

Now the trickier situation, as Perfect Storm alluded to in his post, is if the provider's actions caused you to terminate the session. (i.e. her behavior becomes so intolerable you just cant stand it anymore). You may be 100% right in your entitlement of a partial refund, but the nature of the hobby being what it is, you prob. will not get one.  

Which brings me to the crux of the matter...You learned a valuable lesson in scheduling a three hour session with a lady you had not seen before!  Start with an hour and go from there!

will645 19 Reviews 521 reads
posted
6 / 17

You must  have a lot more $$$than me to set up a first time three hour date-----seems crazy. So,  what was wrong to keep you from wanting more from this great chick? You must not feel this way often or you wouldn't have booked an extended date.

will645 19 Reviews 524 reads
posted
7 / 17

Outstanding,  beautiful,  just as advertised woman is naked in bed expecting (planning) to spend the next two hours fucking  you and you left.... Wish I had been there to help her with the rejection. Trying to imagine this..... Only time I left one hot,  willing, and able early----I was turned off when she mentioned that she was reporting to jail the next morning.

british_ties 19 Reviews 474 reads
posted
8 / 17

Posted By: will645
You must  have a lot more $$$than me to set up a first time three hour date-----seems crazy. So,  what was wrong to keep you from wanting more from this great chick? You must not feel this way often or you wouldn't have booked an extended date.
I guess my yellow fever wasn't as strong as I thought it was.  However I would never deny anyone's natural beauty, and she is unquestionably beautiful.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 509 reads
posted
9 / 17

Eh, never mind, it's your money.  In any event, you did the right thing by not taking any money back.  You booked three hours.  Its' what you owe her for regardless of how much of that time was used.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 510 reads
posted
10 / 17

Seriously...you should have left FROM JUMP! You booked a THREE HOUR appt. that she tossed other hourly calls for. If you did not find her attractive, get out before anything happens and take ALL of your money, but don't bust your little nut and then try to say you were not attracted to her. Such bs!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 482 reads
posted
11 / 17

But after an hour he wasnt attracted to her anymore?? Huh?? Even weirder than finding her unattractive at the beginning and staying anyway! :)

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 497 reads
posted
12 / 17

agree..sounds like hokum podunk to me..maybe it was his imaginary lover..

Posted By: perfectstorm
But after an hour he wasnt attracted to her anymore?? Huh?? Even weirder than finding her unattractive at the beginning and staying anyway! :)

keystonekid 114 Reviews 455 reads
posted
13 / 17

you don't get a refund.  

At a nice restaurant, if you order a large steak and only eat a few bites, can you only pay for 10% of the cost of the meal?

fartsonhigher1 449 reads
posted
14 / 17

Did you take the money and leave? or Did you simply leave? What happened?

I, for one, am surprised at your question and wonder if you are even serious.

Respectfully speaking, we are all adult here. So I would ask, Is there any situation in life where it is OK to simply take back money after you have paid?  
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Anyone who has read through these forums for any length of time can see there is plenty of advice about how to appropriately handle things like changing a session length, dealing with disappointment, ending a session early, and so on. You will always have to either discuss the issue reasonably and see if the two of you can come to an agreement, or you must simply walk away and chalk it up to experience.

harborview 10 Reviews 483 reads
posted
15 / 17

Once you put it down, it's hers.  I look at it as an "oral" contract.  (pun intended).  She offered services, you booked the time, compensation was agreed upon.  She was willing and able to fulfill her side of the bargain...  you decided not to.
In the future, I suggest booking a single hour with a new date..

british_ties 19 Reviews 513 reads
posted
16 / 17

Yeah, I realize this was a pretty asinine question to ask.  It pretty much answers itself when I think about it.

Thanks for everyone's input.  Like a lot of people commented,  the most important lesson I learned from this encounter was to book shorter hours for new providers.

CaitlynKennedy See my TER Reviews 686 reads
posted
17 / 17

!. yeah, you would be a ass for just taking it, being that most providers who are doing a 3 hr date, will either not see anyone else, or block a huge chunk of time...So she was counting on that amount...

If you HAD taken it, she would have know prob why but still thought you a asshole

 
Now you could have made a comment about the left over time and said that you had built the experience up a bit, and while you think she is nice, it is not quite what you had built it up in my head to be so you are cutting it  short no bad feelings

At that point she may be worried bout a review and to make you happier she just may have given the difference herself

I think that you should have communicated to her and maybe said what do you think is fair?

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