I am a newbie provider myself and I would never even consider being like that. I have an old provider and she has taught me that there in lies the difference between a genuine escort and a street walker. When you pay for an hour you get an hour. Now as for the choice between daty, or msog. That one I am not sure of. I look at it like this, unless I tell you up front I don't do something like greek?! Then that hour is your choice. I would never think to tell a gentleman that its for as long as he takes. I am sorry sweetheart. That just tells me that you got the lucky pick of the draw. If nothing else in the future you know to be very specific, ie how many cups of coffee, I get the full hour right... Things like that. I think that will help slim down your chances of that happening again. If it does though, and you know you were very clear, then it becomes your obligation to make sure that it doesnt happen to another gentleman.
Theres my advice for what its worth
Not sure if this will get posted, but I'll try anyway. Ok, after having met 3 really good providers, I guess my luck was bound to change. Here's what happened. I saw an ad for a visiting provider and she was having a half hour special...she has decent reviews on TER, so I figured I'd try her out. I called and asked if I could have an hour and she said ok and gave me the rate. I agreed and set a time. I show up and ask if we can still do the hour and she says sure, she can either do DATY or MSOG, so I'm a litttle confused and tell her I'd like DATY. We do a 69 CBJ and then she tells me to flip over and I start mish and pop within 10 mins. I've been there like 15 mins, she gets up and says we're done. I'm sorta stunned and I ask, I thought we were good for an hour? She says no, that I would either get MSOG or DATY and one pop for my hour price. huh???? I took a quick shower and I was gone in less than 25 mins. Sorry if this sounds like a review, but honestly, I just want to know WTF happened or if this happens alot? Also, I'm not sure if I should review her or not. And yea, never seeing her again.
That could save another hobbyist some frustration.
I've never encountered anything even remotely like that, but I choose my providers carefully.
Whenever a poster starts with some version of "I doubt this will get posted", I take it as a challenge. Besides, I'm in a great mood (amazing sex has that effect on me)
Still, this topic really belongs on your local board where it can do some good.
It's a reminder that lots of poor things can happen as well as the good.
You and she either had a very poor comunication or she ripped you off, probably the latter.
When she started to dictate the menu, that should have been a tip off that she wasn't understanding that you want a full hour of come what may fun time.
Perhaps the hour donation was less than her normal one hour donation and therefore she felt that the session was really a one and done session for up to an hour or your pop, which ever came first.
But that doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. She should at least have let you remain there an hour, if nothing else.
I think this is a honest Q & have no problem it being one the Newbie board.
I think she tricked you. IMHO, this was a scam of sorts. There are so many. You expected 1 hour of come what may s*x & she knew that was what you were bargaining for (she's the pro here) & she played a word game to not deliver.
I am always suspicious of ads which are less than the going rate for my area. I feel there's always a catch, upsell, etc. Some scam. We've all fallen for it. The best we can do is write the review. Yes, you should write her an honest review.
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I am a newbie provider myself and I would never even consider being like that. I have an old provider and she has taught me that there in lies the difference between a genuine escort and a street walker. When you pay for an hour you get an hour. Now as for the choice between daty, or msog. That one I am not sure of. I look at it like this, unless I tell you up front I don't do something like greek?! Then that hour is your choice. I would never think to tell a gentleman that its for as long as he takes. I am sorry sweetheart. That just tells me that you got the lucky pick of the draw. If nothing else in the future you know to be very specific, ie how many cups of coffee, I get the full hour right... Things like that. I think that will help slim down your chances of that happening again. If it does though, and you know you were very clear, then it becomes your obligation to make sure that it doesnt happen to another gentleman.
Theres my advice for what its worth
Slightly off topic, but ... I can see that you (babydollamor) are all starry-eyed but your web page gives no clue what your home base or major city is. There's an area code but those are very portable and not a reliable indicator of where you are. You should have that on your web page someplace, even if in a sub-context: "Travel more than 1 hour outside the downtown Big City area may incur an additional charge."
I advise her against giving the city of her work. She can mention that travel beyond a specific distance will incur a travel charge of x dollars. She can go through city details when a potential hobbyist calls.
being a newb, I just wanted to post this to see what the feeling of the community was. I definitely feel stupid, I'm not pissed, but feel ripped-off. After being fortunate enough to find the first 3 I mentioned, I was really just surprised at her attitude. Thanks again, you guys and ladies are great.
You should be there for 1 hour and she should provide whatever she has on her menu.
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