Is it consider rude to have a gift/wishlist on website? Do gift/wishlist is  add pressure for the hobbyist to bring a gift after seeing a provider more than twice?

Some guys will get you gifts even on 1st session; some may not get it even on 10th session....Some may do it on occasion..

Some will say it's presumptive, and others don't give a darn because they won't look at it anyway. Personally I find them tacky, but that is only my opinion. I think it is better to just toss in a few lines about the things you enjoy and would like to SHARE with the suitors who visit you. For instance, "If you'd like to bring a nice bottle of wine, I enjoy reds, and if you prefer Champagne, I will gladly bring the strawberries."  

Many providers have wish lists on their websites, as many of their clients like to bring gift.  Knowing what they like is a big help to us.  Ladies also mostly say that gifts are not expected, but always appreciated.

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That is what the newbie board is for.  

To have an "induldge me" or "pamper me" page is the fucking height of arrogance. Who buys presents for people they have NEVER met before? Especially when they are handing THEM $300 or $400 an hour? But what two people want to do is none of my biz.  

If guys like to bring gifts, it's helpful to know what she likes.  I always bring a VS gift card and some candles.  Never had a complaint so far.

Didnt say it was tacky to bring a gift. Said it was tacky for the OP to put it on her website. My post said you should handle the gift stuff privately by email. The "pamper me" shit makes the girl look unprofessional, shallow and its presumptive in nature. All of which is the very definition of tacky.

putting a wish list on your website is optional..your client's use of it is optional..giving your clients great sex is not optional..

This is the newbie board where inexperienced people are looking for good advice.

In all the instances you cite, the "lists" are in lieu of a large cash donation. Thats why this is different. This is in ADDIITON to a large cash exchange. It would be the equivalent of someone saying I'd you ot get me a nice birthday gift AND $400 in cash. But only if you wish! Gag! Taaaaaaaaaaaaaaacky!

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as long as the gal doesn't make too big a deal about it, as to put pressure on the client.

It is absurd to bring a gal a box of chocolates if she is trying to keep her weight down, and likewise it is absurd to bring a plant she'll be allergic to.

Many clients like to break the ice with a nice gift.  I bring a piece of jewelry (Never heard a negative comment about jewelry, by the way.)

If however, a gal says she is into Amazon gift cards, then that's what I'll do.

Think of it as a sort of gift registry.

There you go. You ALWAYS bring a gift card and candles and never had a complaint. Do you need a wish list to tell you that? I think not.

I would have one but make it discreet. Maybe mention things you like in parts of your site where you talk about yourself, like the "about me" page or your bio. Don't put a specific link to it in your site menu, to me that is just a pinch obvious. Never put the wish list on your compensation page!! I have seen that and I do believe it is tacky. Bury your list in a place where a client who is interested will find it, but where the ones who are not never have to know it is there.