Well - have never done this before but sonce I have dedicated myself to giving back to the community for a bit....
I just PMd you my "standard verbiage", I copy it from previous communications to introduce myself to a provider who gets my interest. Some verbiage changes from lady to lady, stock verbiage bothers me, too impersonal, so some changes get made each time especially to taylor for anything I picked up in her reviews or advertisment. But 90% of it stays the same.
And it has never failed. It is open, honest, respectful and describes who I am, how I like to treat a lady and what I enjoy in a date. You do not have liberty to use it as written, I wil have you castrated if I find out you did.
The response from the ladies is always met with great appreciation for it being thoughtful and forthright so that they can determine whether we are a good match, the message has evolved over time correspondent to my experiences.
So - when you get the PM - just to be PERFECTLY clear - I am NOT fucking hitting on you dude.
Some stuff is blanked out. I use my real first name when I contact them, and some other personal stuff is removed as well