If it makes you feel better, you aren't the only one. I was starting to get a complex. These are polite, respectful emails but they mostly go unresponded to.
I have sent out a lot of emails to providers to start the screening process but getting a response is not even hit or miss... it seems to be just miss!
Any suggestions for getting these gals to respond? I'll be in Vegas in mid april but want to start planning now to avoid being lonely.
Looking for GND blondes with good reviews if there are any out there listening (wink wink)
-E
Hit and miss can be normal. Missing completely probably has something to do with your emails.
Agreed but they are nice and not vulgar. I wouldn't be so surprised if they were poorly worded.
They are very matter of fact. Dates, offer of references, Etc.
A lot of providers have automated email responses that will let people know that their emails will be responded to asap. For me, sometimes this can take a few days due to travels, my personal life, etc... however it's usually within 24 hours.
Honestly, I have had moments when I made careless mistakes with my emails. This happens when I'm multitasking while emailing... I have typed a personal response to the person who inquired with me but then never hit the send button so it ended up sitting up in my draft box. D'oh!
My suggestion is to be persistent. If you haven't heard back from someone for a few days, send a follow up email and resend the original inquiry. When someone does that to me, I am always appreciative for their persistence and desire to see me.
Best of luck and enjoy Vegas
I always say try using the contact form first but if you aren't wanting to send out your screening/personal information then an email is a great way to check availability/interest!
Approach is everything and if you're sending out an email that says..............
"Hey are you free when I come to town in mid April"
You may get little or no response compared to sending an email that says..........
"Hi My name is ___ my TER name is ___ and you can find my reviews posted here____. I will be in town April _ to _ and I would love to book a _ hour date with you at ____. If you are available that evening please let me know and I can send you my references or fill out the screening form on your website."
It has been a really crazy month for a lot of girls and I know personally last week was spring break so I am a bit behind on emails so maybe a quick followup "did you get my last email" message is a good idea. And then move on, if she doesn't have the time/professionalism to respond to your emails then she probably doesn't have the time to see you!
I don't know what wording you use in your emails. Obviously it should personal and respectful (you can mention how lovely she looks but don't say "you got a nice rack, baby"). Likewise ,no mention of any "services" or "donations" is allowed.
I recommend introducing yourself briefly in your email (some ladies even mention on their website "tell me something about yourself" Some state they will not respond unless you do so.). Also, if you see that the two of you have a common interest you might mention that briefly. Some ladies get lots of emails daily so you need to stand-out (like a cover letter for a job interview).
You should include you screening info after your introduction (Date-Check, P411, TER, references)
Also, preferred date/time; maybe a couple of choices so she doesn't have to play email "tag" with you to set up the appointment.
You can also use her website contact form as well (some may require that you do so). Usually there is a comments field there where you can talk briefly about yourself
Just had a situation myself where the gent subtly referred to services... I almost never responded but then decided to direct him to a link about first time communication with escorts. He was very offended. Ah well. It is what it is.
If it makes you feel better, you aren't the only one. I was starting to get a complex. These are polite, respectful emails but they mostly go unresponded to.
I have an e-mail address, but I prefer my first communication be a voice call. An e-mail is very impersonal. I would suggest you call and leave a message that includes you have sent an e-mail notice with detailed information and wanted to follow up...
E-mails are lovely-quick and to the point, but a call will seal the deal!!!
Good Luck!!!
Well - have never done this before but sonce I have dedicated myself to giving back to the community for a bit....
I just PMd you my "standard verbiage", I copy it from previous communications to introduce myself to a provider who gets my interest. Some verbiage changes from lady to lady, stock verbiage bothers me, too impersonal, so some changes get made each time especially to taylor for anything I picked up in her reviews or advertisment. But 90% of it stays the same.
And it has never failed. It is open, honest, respectful and describes who I am, how I like to treat a lady and what I enjoy in a date. You do not have liberty to use it as written, I wil have you castrated if I find out you did.
The response from the ladies is always met with great appreciation for it being thoughtful and forthright so that they can determine whether we are a good match, the message has evolved over time correspondent to my experiences.
So - when you get the PM - just to be PERFECTLY clear - I am NOT fucking hitting on you dude.
Some stuff is blanked out. I use my real first name when I contact them, and some other personal stuff is removed as well
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