Just an open question: I always read that the rates quoted on the Eros Guide and City Vibe, etc. all say "rates are non-negotiable".  But then when I read the reviews I see rates posted that are different-lower than those posted.  Why is that?  It is not just incall vs. outcall.  Are we supposed to negotiate rates? Do we look like "suckers" if we do not?  Confused here....

The rate on a ladies profile are set by the first reviewer. Rates may change over time I belive the 2 hour rate on my profile is wrong.


You are more than welcome tp try to negotiate but, do not be supprised if you are treated like a scumbag

Sometimes girls run specials.U never neotiate.She'll think your a cop for 1.If you cannot afford her then find someone that you can afford.I find it really disrespectfull when a guy tries to get me to lower my rate.

No, do not negotiate rates.  It's very rude and could put you on a DNS (Do Not See) list for your local area. Look at the provider's latest ad or website to get rates.  It's their responsibility to keep their ads and websites up to date, so you should pay exactly what's posted and also provide a tip if she's earned it.

Also, sometimes a provider's rate changes.  Some start out with low prices and then raise them when they have become more popular and in demand.  Some regular clients that she saw during her lower priced days may be grandfathered into the rate they payed back then.  You should always assume that you'll be paying the highest posted rate you can find on the provider.

One last thing - if you see a provider and she starts trying to upsell you for services, such as "Oh, the initial donation was just for me to show up.  It's going to be $X for this or that", then just say "Sorry, we must've had a misunderstanding." and leave.  Don't ever let a girl take your donation and leave the room without providing anything at all or ask you to drive her to the store to get her something while she sits in the car and waits for you.  That's a pretty typical scam.  I never contact a provider to ask them for their rates, either.  It's probable deniability for both you and her in the event her or you ever get busted.  You can honestly say you never spoke about money.

The review profile is not updated with each review, it is set up by the original reviewer.  Unless someone submits a problem report the rates may be incorrect.  Also, sometimes ladies advertise in several places and they may not all get updated.  OR you have places like CityVibe that outright steal a ladies ad and often has incorrect and outdated information on the ad.  Go by whatever is on the ladies personal site or on her weekly advertising board posts - that is the only information that she can actually control in real time.

If the lady says "non-negotiable" that's what she means.

you should check for currant advertizing or her web site.  When you make contact, you should say where you saw her ad...  you don't need to mention you found all of them & chose the least costly to respond to.
NEVER discuss what you get for the donation.  You both know why you are there.

It's not a bad idea to carry cash up to the amount of the higher donation just in case there's a "misunderstanding"...  but if there is, I'd likely not be going back.  I have encountered situations where the lady stated that was an old ad...  but in each case, the lady agreed to honor it "just this time".

Yes, going to the car or drugstore is a scam...  a runner (who takes off with the donation).  If you try to stop a runner, you could be guilty of unlawful restraint...  though you don't have to make it easy for them.  I always have a 3 sealed pack of condoms with me, just in case.  I have not encountered a scam since I started seeing well reviewed TER ladies...  but one should be aware.
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Just curious does this apply to agencies as well???  If a agency say qoutes you 1500 for a girl's time will they be offended if you come back with a offer less since say some of us are on a budget and the economy has been slow lately?

candor is appreciated.  rates should be updated to avoid giving false impressions.

feedback appreciated.  I have never negotiated rates, but seeing lower rates on the reviews made me wonder if I had been duped!

Well said.  Thank you.  Makes sense.

Good feedback. Thank you for the guidance.  Much appreciated.

got it.  very helpful.  thank you.

Thank you.  Good advice.  Much appreciated.

Don't ever try to price negotiate, there is a reason why the rate is what it is. Price negotiating usually gives us a bad vibe automatically about you and you may end up on our "do not answer list"....Please don't do it

Agencies are a bit different and you won't run the risk of really pissing the provider off.  But I would strongly suggest you make sure that agency isn't sending a girl to upsell you.

I had one guy tell me over the phone "We can negotiate your rates when I see you in person."

I told him I don't negotiate my rates...and politely ended the call.

No negotiating rates. If a gentlemen cannot afford a provider's rate, he should see someone else that's within his budget.

if you get a qoute from a agency for a specific amount...would they get offended if its out of your budget and you try to negotiate with a counter offer??

I did not know that the rates are set by the first providers input...Thanks for the info

Agencies are like providers in that there policies are different across the board.  I really don't have an answer for that.  I would suggest you ask the donation and then say, "that's too much for me.  I would have to pass" and then if they negotiate with you then great.  I don't think many of them do though...  it's NOT common.