Is it ok to ask for a pic of her face?  I understand the discretion of ads.  But if you have chatted and the appointment is set, is it ok to ask for one?

Or just treat it like a blind date?

I don't want to offend her, she seems real sweet on the phone.  Just curious is all.

I say it's ok. She might not do it though. Electronic pictures have a way of proliferating.

Some ladies will send you pics privately and others will not.  How does the lady know you will not forward the pic to someone else?  The trust factor may not materialize until she has seen you privately.

It's tacky.  I don't even send it to a client I've already seen.  There's a reason we don't put our face on the net and let's leave it at that.

eom

we all have our private lives as well and once it hits the web, its out there and out of our control. Same reason we would not want you to take our picture.

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I will send a face picture to a potential client if we've exchanged a few emails and they ask. I send them a professional (clothed, sexy, not overly provocative) head shot -- if that gets around the internet, my reputation is still intact, but they get to see what I look like. It's a win/win, if you ask me.

I wouldn't do that as it seems tacky to me, ESPECIALLY if you've chatted and set an appointment!  You do kinda have to treat it as a blind date, and being curious is normal and part of it.  If you don't have VIP membership, then get it right away.  That way you can read all the details in the reviews.  And you can PM her previous reviewers and specifically ask them about a provider's face.  Along with sticking with well-reviewed ladies, that's the course you should stay on.  Asking "too much" before your meeting will get you more, "Oh, I'm sorry, but I'm gonna have back out of our appointment"s than it will actual "answers" to your questions.