Newbie question

This is a new environment for me. I am the "girlfriend" (we've been together over 3 years) and I suggested bringing in a professional third party for some fun in Denver. Joined TER and have been searching for a third party. This is where I encountered the speed bump.... a lot of providers say they are up for the extra gal but I get the impression she would have to be a pro also (I am not). Any suggestions for narrowing down the list of options? What is the best way to find someone open to being the third party and willing to take charge (I am sure we will both be nervous)... Help

Entering the word "couple" on your ad board. Many providers see couples, (I am one of them) so you can rest assured that the experience will be pleasant specially because the lady will know how to put you at ease.

If your looking for a real take charge provider the BDSM board is always another option too!  Sounds, like fun...

Many providers here also list themselves on eros (or slixa) and those sites list what clientele each provider will entertain (women, men, couples, TG, etc.). You only have to hope that it's accurate. Most of the time when I've inquired to double check it was correct.