hello guys...im new to the hobby thing i have just got vip and have been browsing through some reviews of some providers my thing is that i dont know or i should say would need some pointers on what to the over the phone or throught an email with out making the provider uncomfortable your help would be appreciated ..

Welcome to the hobby may it treat you well!

Some tips.  First and foremost, use the search feature in the forums to locate threads of pertinate info.  This is a big help.

Two don't discuss specifics on the phone.  Most girls will either have rates posted on their web site or ads or will bring it up themselves.  Don't talk money and activities in the same conversation.  It should all be pretty easy to figure out, but if in doubt, ASK.

DON'T discuss money in person.  Just bring it in an envelope (not sealed, she's going to open it) and leave it on the table or whatever.

Tell the provider you are new to the hobby as it might make a difference in how she does things.

If you don't have references (which you won't till you play) tell her honestly.  Some providers will not see you until you do, others (me) have other ways they screen new guys.

Please take a BATH before your date.  You wouldn't believe the conversations we girls have privately regarding this...

And if you have to cancel or reschedule please CALL her as far ahead as possible.  If you cancel at the last minute a reasonable consolation gift would be in order since she may have turned away other clients to see you.

With that, have fun, play safe.  And if you ever get bored with the regular girls...

Hugs,
TS Jamie

is good.  You should also check provider's website.  This will tell you what services they provide, and how much of a donation they will expect from you.

To reiterate what Jamie said, don't mention specific acts or discuss money on the phone.

The bottom line is research, research, research.  Since you have VIP membership, you cam PM some of the guys in your area for info about local providers.

Swim

Your initial contact would be something like: "Hi, I'm John.  I've seen your website, and I would like to schedule an appointment to spend an hour with you.  I was hoping for Thursday or Friday afternoon."  If they require any screening information, be prepared to give that in the e-mail or over the phone.  Don't talk about money or sex.

As Jamie said, you might also mention sometime in the conversation or in the e-mail that this is your first time that you've done this.

Good luck, and enjoy the ride.


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With VIP you can search complete reviews.  Select a lady who has substantial reviews (at least 5 or 6) from established reviewers.  When you read the reviews, be sure she offers what you are looking for.  For example, some guys require BBBJ, while others are happy with  CBJ.  Enjoy!