I'm a relatively new provider and in the course of "checking out the competition" I've noticed that several providers with whom I share a similar/look/build/attitude have reviews from the same guy.  Obviously I think he would love me (grin) but is it "ok" for me to email him and suggest getting together?  As a client, how would you react to receiving an email like that? On one hand, I think we could have a great time together, on the other, I feel confident that he'll find me eventually.  Thoughts?

A good example of this is the recent thread about StandUpLou
on the NY board.

If he posts on the NY board, just "interact" with him there.
Guys are suckers for a good board personality.

dude out

Wrong idea, the information could end up embarrasing the men or causing a divorce for them. Your best route is to ask men that have seen you and are members of review boards, to write truthful reviews about their time with you. Once this is done, men that like your type will find you.

NEVER initiate contact with a client unless they request.

Reo not do cold emails.

It wouldn't bother me to recive a PM from TER from a girl, I would guess that anyone who is a member here has a email account set up to recive notice from TER that is safe.

I have never had a provider do this but I always thought it was a great idea. If she has seen me before and knows my general location. And will be in the area for another appt. ect. If she would e-mail and let me know she was in the area and wanted to see me I would likely take her up on the offer. Especially if she offered a discount, like since she's already in the area not charging outcall rates.

have gotten private mail here on TER from providers that thought I might be interested in them ... and I was very flatterd ... so no mail outside of TER ... Here on TER shouldn't be a problem ..... try it and see....good luck