Hello all. Thanks for such a great site.

Have been considering visiting a FBSM provider. Found her on Eros, she has a well done site/nude photos, AND reviews on here. There seems to be a lapse in reviews (which I know could be for several reasons) - but has me nervous. Last review was over a year ago, but all reviews come from clearly experienced guys.

Wondering what your thoughts are. I've scoured both this and legal boards. Feeling pretty ok, but would love your thoughts.

Thanks all.

But that's me, if you think your nervousness will interfere with enjoying your time with this provider than don't see her. Only you can make the call. Have you talked or emailed this escort? Ask politely and she may put yours to rest.  Read the link below for most recent thread on this topic. Now, you need to learn to use the TER search feature, so you don't have to wait for answers. See my response to the white list post to learn how to use this feature.

Thanks for your thoughts.

Indeed I have have brief email/phone exchange with her. Everything seems just fine except the lapse. I'm less concerned with her appearance over time, more concerned that somehow LE is involved or something.

I've a vivid imagination, and have seen plenty of movies, so take it with a grain of salt. My concern was along the lines of LE started using her for entrapment somewhere in the lapse. Conspiracy theory: yes. Not sure if that happens in real life (especially alongside all the things I noted - current website, photos, ad, history of reviews, active email and willingness to talk on phone).

Anyway, thanks for your help.

I don't want to ruin anything for you and more experienced guys might want to chime in on my conspiracy theories, but basically make sure it's the same person.

Has it ever happened that someone has stolen or borrowed a TER identity to get their business rolling? (Or for LE to get THEIR business rolling?) In fact, see another Newbie post "Am I being paranoid?" If the original provider is somehow known to be retired or inactive for a while someone might claim to be her until they get caught and outed.

You need to be VIP and she needs to be provider-VIP for Private Messaging on TER but I would suggest asking her to reply to a PM. That way, you know it's her or someone she trusts enough to give her password.

If you arrive and it is NOT the girl in the picture be prepared to leave.

Somebody should do a statistical analysis about the odds of getting busted by LE vs getting into an accident in your car on the way to the appointment.

Seriously. The first time I did it I think I was more worried about the latter. How would I explain to my SO what I was doing where I was at that time of day?

I guess you just have to decide for yourself if the risks are worth it. They will always be there.

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I've had those same questions run through my head as well...