Hello,
Noob here.  I have been here for several months and done all my homework.  Researched, cross referenced reviews etc. and picked my first choice.  The problem is all her pics have the face blurr thing.  Is it inappropriate for me to ask her for pics w/o the blurr?

Thanks

But I also know that many other providers who blur because of privacy issues only are of the same mindset I am….....  

Usually once we have established your identity we have no problem directing you to a link that has full face shots included.

I also know of zero established providers that are unable to share clear full photos once they are confident with you and comfortable. If it is truly for security and privacy they should have no problem sharing full photos with you.

Besides, all you can do is ask…. If they say no then you have your answer.

Happy Hobbying-know your provider(and her reputation)  Kisses ~Tori

As a "face man", I've often wished the same but I have not had the courage to ask yet. I don't think I would advise it until you have pretty well agreed on a date and established a good rapport with the provider.

Realistically, some women look better in person than their pictures so even a non-blurred picture may not give you what you want to know.

And the reason most providers blur or obscure their face is because of a) fear of LE harassment or b) fear that somebody they know in the civvy world will discover their profession.

So be very sensitive to that and ask her only if you have gained her trust - not before.

Any image online can be saved (any image...all the ways to protect images can be thwarted), and any image sent to someone is certainly saved.

Zero providers are unable to send there full face photos out to allow a client (or prospective client) to send to whomever he wishes? post where he wishes? No problems sending photos that he can send to anyone that inquires about you? No issues with someone else having control of whom knows what a lady looks like?

Hell by that standard a prospective client that has never seen a lady now has more proof and can do more damage if he shares that photo than a client that has seen her 100 times.

And you know of no ladies that have a problem with that?

The established providers that…. “I know”…… as well as myself have no problem sending out photos once they are comfortable w/ the gentleman.

The clientele and the providers that I associate with do have a certain level of trust. That is why I am constantly reminding gentlemen to Know their provider, and her reputation.

Yes, the providers that I associate with either show their faces or have no problem w/ sharing it once a gentleman has attained a comfort level by cooperating with screening.

Thank you for allowing me to reiterate that most established providers are very confident in their screening as well as the gentlemen who pass it…. Kisses ~Tori

Once I have screened someone, I will send a face photo if it is requested.  I have confidence in my screening - and trust the gentlemen I visit with to keep my confidence.  

If I didn't trust a client enough to not share a photo of me, why would I trust him enough to see one-on-one?

I don't show my face for privacy reasons.  Most of my clients don't ask for a face photo.  Never once have I had a client disappointed in what he finds.  

Read through the reviews of the ladies you are wishing to see, cooperate with their screening, and most will trust you to see a photo - and not share it with others.

I find this is the case with most of the ladies I associate with.  Faces are hidden not because there is something wrong with their looks, but because they have a need for a level of privacy.

Then again, not everyone runs their business the same....Since I know Tori well, we often see eye-to-eye on many things - like this.

Isn't Silence of the Lambs a GREAT flick??

I don't think it's necessarily inappropriate for you to ask, so long as you recognize that it's not inappropriate for her to say no. I, personally, would not be willing to give out an unblurred photo of my face- I am a very private person.

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