So this is my first time i am actually going to go through with this hobby. I got the VIP pass, I've read the reviews. So I choose a girl who had only three, but was reviewed bytwo people who have posted many reviews So I make an appointment for myself later on in the week (check is coming in the mail) and I get through the screening process rather quickily.
The guy does have a few other girls under the same number and they also have a good number of reviews.
Seeing that I am a virgin, I just want to know if the screening process usually goes that fast. I did provide the necessary info and I did call. But when I scheduled the date, he didn't ask what time. is this normal? I am just a worrier i guess.
If you provide what I need sometimes I can verify you in a matter of minutes. If I have to base it on other girls getting back to me sometimes it takes a little longer. Not sure why nobody asked you what time however. Once someone checks out that's the next thing I want to establish so we can make a date. How else would you know (and she know) what time to be there? Maybe it was an oversight...
1. You said that you have gotten VIP, which is very good. You don't mention if you have read the Self Help Manual thoroughly. If you haven't, I strongly urge you to do so.
2. You mentioned something about a check in the mail I don't understand. Did you send the provider (or her scheduler, to use a polite term) a check as a deposit? This is somewhat rare unless they are coming from another city just to see you, or you have booked a long session. I don't recommend any of these things for a first date.
3. You mention that you are a virgin. Have you told the provider this? I think you should
4, It is very unusual and a red flag that he/she did not ask about the time your session is.
5. How fast did the screeing go? If it was just verifying things like your address, phone and place of employment, it could all be done in 15 minutes or less.
It's fine to worry a bit given it is your first session.
I respectfully disagree with your item 3. Telling a provider or agency that you are inexperienced is an invitation for upselling or other rip offs. It is like a used car buyer telling a salesman that he doesn't know anything about cars or a real estate buyer telling a realtor that he doesn't know anything about houses. A virgin should let the provider/agency know that he is a member of TER. The provider/agency might at least have fear of a bad review.
Posted By: mrfisher
3. You mention that you are a virgin. Have you told the provider this? I think you should
I understand your concern but think it's OK to tell the provider at the beginning of the date, though not before. Just telling her you're "very inexperienced" is an important cue for her. And, if you've done your homework and read her reviews, there's little risk of upselling. Besides, if the OP is a virgin, he probably won't last long enough to reach up-sell territory!
1) The guy has a few reviews under the same number? I presume you are dealing with an agency run by a guy? Not saying this is bad, but I prefer to deal with independent ladies whereby I never have to deal with third parties. 2) Timing on screening is irrelevant in quickness. 3) When you scheduled the date, timing should be key in re: your personal scheduling preferences.
My best advice? Back out of this. You NEVER want to be interacting with guys/pimps. Start over, dude, and make your first time is with a high quality independent that will deal with you directly, and have an adequate number of reviews to establish credibility .
Just like with any indy gal, you have to do your homework and read experienced guys' reports on agency girls. Where you an I play, there are several I've used that are really good. PM me if you want names.
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