I am new to hobbying and I am back to using a condom.  It had been years since I've used one, but I am finding that nothing kills my erection like a condom.

So, my questions are: does anyone have any advice or suggestions in dealing with this?   My doctor suggested I'd try a female condom.  I've noticed some providers advertise as "female condom friendly."  But it is really a big deal to inquire if a provider is willing to use one?  From a provider POV, is using a female condom an issue?  Is this even a good solution?  Is it just a matter of getting used to wearing the Trojan again?

Everything works just fine during uncovered activity, but despite the best efforts of some wonderful women, condoms just seem to leave me hanging.

Help!

Many gals will be afraid to discuss it thinking it could be LE trying to trap them into discussing sex for money.

It sure would help if TER made a FC friendly category.

I think for now the best you can do is bring some FC to a session with you (in a sealed box) and tell them when you are BCD what your situation is.

I hope that they will be understanding and use them, but no guarantee.

The other solution is to stick to activities that do not require a condom, but that may not be your cup of tea.

Finally talk to your doctor about vitamin V (Viagra or Ciallis)  Those might get things working for you again.

Best wishes that you get this taken care of.

...don't use them.  The FC2 is difficult to find in stores and they're much more expensive than male condoms.  Also, women are unfamiliar with how to put them in or think that they look funny when inserted.

You can ask about it if you've seen the provider before but if you haven't you don't want to "waste" your first visit just so you can ask her about using a female condom on a subsequent visit.  As mrfisher suggested, try bringing an unopened one with you if it's the first time you're seeing her.  

The FC2 is the closest thing to bareback.  Given a choice between two equal providers, I'll take the one who uses an FC2 every time.  It does make a big difference.  Providers would be smart to start using them.

I resently had my first experience with the FC and became a big fan. The feeling is so much more natural I think it might be the solution to your problem. Find the right lady and give it a try.

FC2 is my number one and preferred method for several reasons.  The only times a traditional condom is used is for anal or cbj for those who request that. Yes, the are more expensive but I feel as a provider you shouldn't take the cheap route in anything.  

My recommendation is that you ask a provider to try/use a fc2. Some providers haven't heard of or tried it. I think with one try it may become their preferred method as well. It does feel like bbfs and it doesn't restrict the janker so he will have plenty of room to grow

Just find a provider who is female condom friendly. If she is NOT comfortable using them like I am, the date is not going to be that great anyway. Most of my time is spent on uncovered oral vs. actual condom sex, so maybe you might prefer more bbbj if you have issues using condoms. I am sure most men here hate using them as well, but it is a necessary precaution.  

Don't try to talk a provider into doing something she does not like doing, but instead find one who loves using them. I find they are a serious pain in the ass, mess up the mood, look retarded, are very uncomfortable, hard to insert, and only allow for FS vs. oral.

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I find them a bit strange. And as London pointed out, they can be a real mood killer. The lady stops what you are doing and begins to cram a latex gizmo into her, not sexy