Newbie - FAQ

Maybe she got spooked
Mrtarget 1810 reads
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I'm new to the hobby and am wondering if I contacted a provider improperly. I did an advanced search with my criteria, selected a safer one with high reviews and followed the instructions to text her. I did saying "hi, I'm _____ trying to get in contact with _____, I'd like to schedule an appointment". Two texts and she never got back. Her ads say same day booking, and she has recent reviews saying that she is quick to respond. Am I breaking any usual methods here? Is there more information I should provide? Like a 411 verification. I would like to see them but I don't want to be creepy and text again.

Provider in question: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=226286

Thanks!

keystonekid 114 Reviews 445 reads
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2 / 7

length of appointment desired. She may have thought a time-waster because you were so general.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 373 reads
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3 / 7

Most providers, if not all, want to know when and where you want to see them.  You should have been more specific.  Like, "I'd like to see you on Tuesday, at 10AM if that's possible'.  Any verification you can provide is always helpful to them, if you have it already.

Swim

ryan3504 15 Reviews 388 reads
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4 / 7

I made the mistake of being way too general when I was a newbie (hell, I'm still a newbie).  And as a result, I sent out many unreturned emails.

But give a provider a date,time, location, & duration, you will have better luck.  Then they know you are serious.  If the details are not perfect for her, she will let you know the options.

FlamingDragon 338 reads
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5 / 7

Y'know I was in the middle of something and was late to call back a provider.  I kept calling and she wouldn't pick up, I feared she might flaked out on me as I traveled some time to meet her.  Then realize she might be in a middle of a session.

Anywho, tell them what day and give them a few options on time.  If no response after a few text, forget it and move on.  If you plan on using work verification, I usually would automatically tell them the name of the company.  Once they reply I'll give an extension.

The most important piece of the text is name, date, time, and either referrals or work verification.

skylersky1 See my TER Reviews 294 reads
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6 / 7

have accidently erased the text before replying.
I would text one more time, & go ahead & provide your verification in the text, also go ahead & add the day & time that you are looking to schedule with her & tell her you are flexible with the times (that is if you are). Then just be patient, if she doesnt get back with you within a day or two.....um, well, I don't kno....lol....

FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 273 reads
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7 / 7

By your inexperience, maybe soothing spooked her or she just got an uncomfortable feeling.  I would say let it be water under the bridge.  As you get more experience in this, it 'll be easier.

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