Recently I went to a strip club and while their I realized that besides being a sham, why couldn't I just get a provider to do the same instead of being hit with the blue ball syndrome?

But how does one go about asking for a lapdance and then have it lead to more?

Should I tell them about my experience and hopefully that leads to one by them or should I just ask bluntly?

Are comfortable with it. You could ad it in your first introduction email (when you introduce yourself with your screening info and the time, date and length of your desired appointment) but don't make any sexual references. Just ask if the lady is comfortable with strip teasing. I personally stripped for a few years so I'm perfectly comfortable with this, however some ladies wouldn't be.

Good luck in you search!

Cleo

Just have to remember to keep it casual when doing so, don't want to spook anyone off by being to detailed. But generally after first meeting just about anything can be discussed fairly openly when they know your for real.

Specify that you'd like a provider that was a stripper at some point?

Not sure how high the percentage would be, but I am sure quite a few have done some exotic dancing of one form or another.

If you have VIP membership, you will find some reviews mention the provider dancing. Well, at least I found one who did it. And she clearly stripped, and was damned good it - put me on a chair, and did a lap dance and strip that left me panting - quite an enjoyable fantasy come true (we also did some things in front of a full length mirror that I remember fondly). I also do not think there is any harm at all in asking the provider if she would mind dancing a little for you. Just leave out the part about what you want to do after the dance.

Provider in question was in Boston - PM me if you want more info or you can figure it out easily enough from my reviews.

Zig

Not in my circle of friends, I'm the only one. So it really depends one necessarily doesn't go with the other.