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Many providers don't do COF for practical reasons - you're not...
NeilDiamond 2016 reads
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1 / 14
Facials

I enjoy a messy finish, and judging by 99% of porn videos, I'm not the only one.  However, I feel extremely awkward asking a provider if that's okay.  Some providers list it on their P411 profiles, in which case it's not so bad, as I feel more or less authorized to go for it.  But for those that don't, what's the best way to approach the subject?  Just man the fuck up and ask?  If so, when?  Before the session?  When I feel the finish coming on?  

Perhaps I'm over thinking this, but what I'm trying to avoid is offending a girl by asking the question.  I've approached the subject with girls I've dated before, and some were really offended by it (some, fortunately, were totally cool with it).  So if there's a delicate or accepted way to approach the subject, I'd appreciate any advice.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 710 reads
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2 / 14
Many providers don't do COF for practical reasons - you're not...

...her only client of the day and she doesn't want to have to shampoo her hair and re-apply her makeup again.  You can eliminate that by booking her last appointment of the day.  Real life isn't a porn video.

JackDunphy 539 reads
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3 / 14
Look for girls that advertise themselves as "PSE".

As in "porn star experience." It's not a given that they will partake in a facial, but much more likely to be the case.

Granted, your request out of the blue will offend a few, no doubt, or make it awkward possibly. Best way to approach it is after you have been verified and even after round 1, during pillow talk time.

Also read the reviews and pm her guys. Many girls will take a facial but don't want it in their review and some guys skip it and leave it out.  

Even if the reviewer didn't give her a facial, he may have spoke to her about it or may be her regular and may have the info from knowing her.

miamidolls See Agency Profile 572 reads
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4 / 14
Sometimes is not possible due to their schedule..

Appointments scheduled later in the day, going to class after they meet with you, picking up kids later, things can get messy etc.. Maybe you are better off going with a Pornstar.. in that case, if she does that on her videos, you can ask her if you can expect the same exact service.. most GFE providers don't have the luxury of accommodating that due to the reasons above..

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NeilDiamond 572 reads
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5 / 14
Of course not

But I won't know if I don't ask, right?  My question was about how to ask.  I wasn't looking for a preachy unhelpful response.

Posted By: BigPapasan[/usernameReal life isn't a porn video.

Really? Are you sure?  Thank you for sharing that extremely helpful bit of wisdom.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 506 reads
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6 / 14
I ask, but usually wait till the second date....

so that I sort of know them and I can gauge their acceptance.

About 1/2 the time they are cool with it, and 1/2 the time they aren't.  There was one that got so offended that she just got up and left; well, you can't make an omelet without cracking a few eggs.

In a few cases the gals that said no later acquiesced and tried it.  One was OK with it, one not so much, but I give her credit for trying out something new.

It's one of those love it or hate it type of things.  A couple of gals I know just about insist on it, in fact.

One caution:  Watch your aim and keep the spunk out of her eyes.  It can really sting.

ROGM 500 reads
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7 / 14
Asking For A Facial.

I always ask first. If she's OK with it, then all well and good. I've asked my current Girl if it's OK. She said that's fine. Just let me know when you're ready. I've done about two Facials with her.

cocktail-party 480 reads
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8 / 14
Just ask nicely when you're in session

either while you're discussing what you like, or while you're underway you can say "I want to/may I COF? It really turns me on." If she says 'no' then drop it. It's not the request, it's the guys who won't take no for an answer that annoy the fuck out the ladies

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 574 reads
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9 / 14
I love a good Jackson Pollock painting on the ol' mug...

But sometimes it's just not practical for me. When in doubt, just ask. I've found that it's best to inquire when the clothes are already off.

hbyist+truth=;( 525 reads
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10 / 14
Well said!

Because if it goes in my hair I want to shower right then. I also want to wash it off my face immediately too so there goes the make up.

hbyist+truth=;( 453 reads
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11 / 14
Hey don't you go getting all cattywumpas on him

I thought his post was spot on.  

Okay so you want to know HOW to ask, let me take a potshot at this one.  

After being naked with your hooker and getting a little busy, you could always try this, "what is your feeling on facials?". If she says she hates them, well end of story. If she says they're fine, simply ask "may I finish that way?".

Hope that help

hbyist+truth=;( 485 reads
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12 / 14
My approach is

Eyes and mouth tightly shut. You want COF and face it is. Not in mouth or in eyes......LOL.

hbyist+truth=;( 377 reads
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13 / 14
Your last sentence

Is so true, at least for me. No  means no and if a guy persists, I am done.

NeilDiamond 501 reads
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14 / 14
Re: Hey don't you go getting all cattywumpas on him

Perhaps I overreacted.  His post was correct for what it was, but he made obvious points and did not address my question.  It made it seem like I did not already know that such a thing is the woman's choice.  Of course I know that, that's why I'm asking how to ask.  I really bristle at condescension, it just rubs me the wrong way.  Thanks for your help!

I thought his post was spot on.  
 

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