Not really a newbie but only about a year and 7 dates in. My question is, do providers really use the TER Whitelist to screen clients? I've almost exclusively been scheduling and screening through P411 but I'm a "variety is the spice of life" type guy and would like to check out some ladies that aren't necessarily on P411. Just curious if I should ask some of the providers I've seen to give me a TER referral as well as the P411 "Okay" they have already given me.  
What say you ladies?

How do you know if you are on the whitelist?  Is it like TRW or something?  What if a hobbyist and a provider have irreconcilable differences?  So she's going to make drama.  "Hey ya know what if you can't stand dogs then we aren't going to get along 'cause I have furkids!"  
What kind of person doesn't like dogs?    
 Maybe she had a bad experience when she was young and a dog barked at her and scared her or something, IDK!!!  
   
   
Jonathan

It's their preference as to whether or not they use the TER whitelist.  It is acceptable to ask for referrals on this or any verification site you might belong to.  I have done it many times.

Swim

Everyone is different....
      I view the whitelist as an added piece in screening. Cannot rely solely on it because its under a "handle" name. Depends on the gals level of screening but is a definate plus to see a gent is whitelisted.

am of the strong belief that your TER credentials are an extremely important aspect of the entire verification process. This means your review history, your board presence and of course your   whitelist referrals. It is why I always send a PM to the lady in addition to an E-mail so she can see my "hobbying history". Also, receiving an appointment request (among the many these ladies get) from an established client (one with a lengthy history in this hobby) is obviously more comforting to them than receiving a blanket random E-mail from an unknown potential client. It makes them want to continue the verification process. Comfort is everything in this business and clients with a strong hobbying background move to the front of the pact.  

I only see well reviewed TER ladies, most of which would never compromise on screening. However, to that end, I have not been asked to provide an additional reference in prob. well over 5 years. Am I special? Of course not. One of several things obviously occurs:

1. The ladies will look at my extensive review history and be satisfied that I am legitimate client
2. The ladies will look at my whitelist references and be comfortable with the overall number of referrals or a particular ladies approval.
3. The ladies will take a name or two from my whitelist and contact them, unbeknownst to me, for a final confirmation.

In all cases, they used my TER credentials as part of their screening process. So I will always argue that your overall presence on TER is crucial. A big part of that are your white list references.

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the words "see my reviews", right next to your name when you post.  They appear at the end of your list of reviews.

You can also get to them in "Account Manager" by clicking on "my referals".

If you want to ask a provider to whitelist you certainly cannot hurt.
However,I take the whitelist with a grain of salt I would not solely depend on a gent who has reviews here and a whitelist or two here for screening.The reason being is that whitelist is suppose to be for ladies to say I saw this gent he is ok but I have found in some situations a whitelist was given to a gent who never saw the provider who whitelisted him.So,as you can see that is why I do not depend on a whitelist at face value without contacting the reference to see if she indeed did see the gent.

IMO,a vouch on P411 is way better to me than a whitelist here.Some ladies might not be ter members here and unable to see your whitelist but many are P411 members who would be able to see your references there.
Just my .02

Asking to be whitelisted by the providers you see can't hurt. The more options you have for varification the better, it just makes things simpler for all parties concerned.

Whitelist is not very important, it can make verifying easier with a lady on TER who accepts it as reference.  To see if you are whitelisted go to My TER and ceck my referrals.