Members have a mail, or email, set up with the users profile.

I figured out that we can email other members, but can we email the ladies from this site?  

Also, if we email the name listed in the profile, will the lady get that email?

Use of the TER Private Mail (PM) system is only available to VIP members, regardless of gender or occupation.  Non-VIP members can send PM, but cannot retrieve PM from their mailbox.

In addition, PM can only be sent to a valid TER username, not to an alias.