Does anyone have any thoughts on what an appropriate donation for a weekend (Friday evening through Monday morning) would be?   Just trying to get a range before I ask my favorite provider.

Some providers really discount for overnights and weekends, some do not.

I'll take a guess at $5,000.00.

Good luck and have fun

did you check the rates on her website?.i have no idea why you are asking us..

Does she list an overnight rate on her web site?  If not she may not even offer them.  Have you talked with her at all about it?  Again, if she does them she has a price in mind. Just ask her. If her rate blows you out of the water you COULD try a counter-offer but I wouldn't try to turn it into "let's make a deal".  If the two of you have a good chemistry she may give you a better deal than you are expecting.

Having had lots of Weekend & trips with providers , it has ALWAYS been more about fun than money.I'm of an age where I'm not gonna  bust 4/5 times a day for three days .So if I'm gonna be in the presence of some 1 for 72 hours we better have already spent  a night or multi -hours together and she had better of shown me it's not ALL about the all mighty dollar.Otherwise my friend about 8 hours into this weekend it will dawn on you that ..your imagination has gotten the better of you.`

the best way to find out if your favorite does not have such a rate is to simply ask.

Have you already done at least an overnight with her already?

If not, I strongly suggest you do that first to see if you want to be with her for 3 nights.  That can be a very long time if you are not overnight compatible.

If her overnight rate is in the usual range of $1,500 - $2,000, then I would say a three night would be around $4,000 - $5,000.

Have some things in mind to do to pass the time such as rent or go to the movies, a couples massage, shopping, cooking or going out to dinner. A weekend is a long time with someone and it can be great just remember to think of it as time with a girlfriend so you need things to do other than lay in bed waiting for things to pop up. I would also suggest you both take daily breaks for an hour or whatever you may need. An example for me would be to take a bath alone for a while ... Everyone needs "me time".  

Whether or not you two are busy the entire time with the "fun stuff" the provider is still spending her time and that does mean money. Even if you two get along wonderfully, it's still a business so expect to pay but also expect a good time! I would agree with the above amounts ... Again a lot of it depends on what her hourly or overnight rates are and what you are willing to spend. Maybe you should consider all of that then decide exactly how much you are willing to pay. Then approacher her with the amount and see if that would be worth a weekend from fri night to mon morning. Don't negotiate the amount, adjust the time. Maybe she will do it for your amount but fri night through sun night.

For YOU it is all about fun; and an excellent provider will see to it that you have that fun while she is running her business.  

You may get a break if she likes you and enjoys your company but it is based on business. You are hiring her, and it makes no difference how many times a day you "bust" whether its zero or ten.  

I wonder if anyone really does that...4 or 5 times a day for a several-day date? I would hope for a more imaginative companion.  

That has me thinking I'm going to really "feel out the waters" when I'm considering an extended date to see if that's what's expected! I wouldn't do it.  

The OP's scenario is 3 days & 3 nights- a LONG time to spend with someone you don't know all that well. I would hope it is filled with a good balance of many activities, and tons of stimulating conversation.  

Peace,

Astri

Everyone here has made many valid observations and points to be considered.. Ballpark figure I agree would be in the 5K range. And you best have activities in mind.. Even just the simple things as seeing a movie.. Sporting events.. A mix of things you enjoy and she enjoys but yes at lest an overnight has to be spent with the person previously to ensure a compatibility and maybe a chemistry otherwise a long weekend is going to be LONG and frustrating for both you and her. and in the end will be an unpleasant memory for a lot of dough..

Would think she would base it upon her hourly, and overnight rates and how much of a discount to provide for the convenience of being booked for the weekend.  Past experiences for the lady may come in question as well.  Did she ever do a weekend?  Were they pleasant, or did the time together start getting on nerves?  Of course, she may not even like you and charge a premium.